Play It ForWords Therapy

12/10/2025

✨When we shift the lens from “What’s wrong with this kid?” to “What state is their nervous system in?” everything changes.✨

What looks like “defiance” or “shutting down” is often a nervous system doing exactly what it’s designed to do...protect.

📣📣In The Regulated Classroom, our four core practices meet these states head-on:

🤝 Connectors help bring students out of dorsal shutdown through safe human connection.
⚡ Activators support students stuck in sympathetic energy by giving that activation somewhere to go.
🌊 Settlers help everyone return to calm, grounded regulation.
🙏 Affirmations reinforce safety, belonging, and co-regulation.

12/06/2025

“squirm to learn!”

New research conducted at UCF shows that if you want ADHD kids to learn, you have to let them squirm.

12/05/2025

Is your child “screen addicted”… or is something else happening underneath?
Here’s the checklist every parent should see — and the part that matters most:

WHAT THIS CHECKLIST MEANS
If you’re nodding along, your child probably isn’t “addicted”.
They’re dysregulated. Overwhelmed. Seeking stimulation because it feels easier than slowing down.
What they need most is support, co-regulation and realistic boundaries — not shame or fear.

Please comment Screen for our free information sheet.

11/22/2025

11/18/2025

A simple infographic that perfectly explains the, “but my child is ‘perfect’ at school, why does he act this way at home” mystery !

So many parents ask why their child seems fine all day but unravels the second they get home. The answer lies in safety, connection, and how the brain processes stress — this visual explains it clearly.

Full After-School Restraint Collapse Toolkit available via the link in comments below ⬇️ or via Linktree Shop in Bio.

11/13/2025

Please consider supporting Ginnie’s House. Their work is absolutely essential to the young survivors of child abuse and neglect in our area .

We just found out that we lost HALF our budget due to reductions in federal funding. 😫😭
This means our ENTIRE CLINICAL PROGRAM is at risk.

As the only CAC in Sussex County, our agency provides trauma-focused therapy, crisis intervention, forensic support and coordination of services to children who are victims of trauma, abuse, neglect, and violence. THESE SERVICES ARE NOT OPTIONAL; THEY ARE LIFE-CHANGING AND OFTEN LIFESAVING!
Buying 50/50 tickets will go a long way to ensure these kids don’t lose access to the care that will help them reclaim a childhood, heal from profound trauma and prevent a lifetime of mental health struggles.
We are looking for people to commit to $100 a month for a year! Of course, we will take ANY donation - but monthly (of ANY amount) is most impactful. You can set up your monthly giving here , to help us maintain our level of crucial services in 2026!
https://www.zeffy.com/en-US/donation-form/donate-to-ginnies-house

11/08/2025

Before a child can manage their emotions, they first need to notice them.
That begins with interoception — the hidden sense that helps the brain read the body’s signals.

A racing heart, a heavy chest, butterflies, a tight tummy — these are the body’s early messages.
When a child can’t interpret them, emotions can appear “sudden” or “out of nowhere.”
They’re not ignoring how they feel — their brain simply isn’t getting a clear signal yet.

Understanding interoception helps us respond with patience, not punishment — and teach children how to recognise what their body is trying to say.

Explore Managing Big Feelings: The Toolkit for Parents & Educators — practical guidance to help children build awareness, understanding, and self-regulation. Link in comments below ⬇️ or via Linktree Shop in Bio.

11/06/2025

Our children won’t remember how perfectly we managed everything — they’ll remember how safe it felt when we didn’t fall apart.

They’ll remember the calm in our voice when theirs was breaking, the steady hands that held the moment together, the quiet confidence that said, we’ll figure this out.

Because what anchors them isn’t flawless parenting — it’s steadiness.

It’s the way we breathe through the chaos instead of becoming it. The way we choose presence over panic, softness over control.

In our calm, they learn what safety feels like. In our steadiness, they find their strength. And long after the storm passes, it’s that sense of safety — born from our calm — that will help them find their own. ❤️

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10/30/2025

Your child isn’t giving you a hard time — they’re having a hard time managing big impulses with a small brain still under construction.
Connection teaches regulation far more effectively than consequences. 💛

📖 More on understanding your child’s behaviour in my book Guidance from The Therapist Parent, available on www.thetherapistparent.com and Amazon.

10/24/2025

Helping a child regulate doesn't mean you are giving in to your child. You can compassionately hold a boundary and help them Co-regulate.

Learning to Co-regulate with your child is a skill that you will be able to draw on during stressful times. It helps children and adults to manage emotions while maintaining connection. It will also help children to grow with a sense of security and the ability to eventually self-regulate. Surely, if you are the parent or the child, this is something we could all use regardless of age.

More information in my book
Guidance from The Therapist Parent

Available on my website www.thetherapistparent.com and Amazon

10/20/2025

Behavior is communication:

Listen.
Observe.
Validate.
Empathize.

Ask questions.
Look for the need driving the behavior.
See the person, not just the problem;
Meet the need;
Reconnect;
Equip your child with better ways to communicate the need in the future;
Model the behavior you want teach;
In that order.
That is the heart and soul
of working with,
instead of against,
our children.
💞 L.R.Knost

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Fighting a rare, incurable cancer, but I’m still here!💞 L.R.

10/17/2025

"Play is really the work of childhood." This quote from Fred Rogers is everything.

When kids play, they’re learning in ways that books alone can’t teach. Outside, they explore, create, and grow with every stick, stone, and splash.

Let’s give them the freedom to make nature their classroom!