03/10/2026
Arlene Helen Friedrich, age 90, of Boonville, passed away peacefully on Sunday, March 8, 2026, at Katy Manor in Pilot Grove, holding her husband’s hand surrounded by her family.
Arlene was born December 27, 1935, to Frederick and Pauline Bonen Barringhaus in Howard County, the youngest of three daughters. She attended Saints Peter and Paul Catholic School in Boonville where she graduated in 1953.
Arlene married Oscar “Sonny” Friedrich on March 2, 1954, at Saints Peter & Paul Catholic Church. They recently celebrated their 72nd wedding anniversary, a beautiful example to everyone of love, faith, and commitment in the sacrament of marriage. After they were married, they lived on the family farm in Billingsville until 1968, when they moved into town. Arlene worked at Holsum Bakery in Boonville as a secretary/bookkeeper for over 10 years and then stayed home to raise her children.
Her greatest joy and legacy was her family. She was a proud mother of 5 children, the grandmother to 13 grandchildren and 18 great-grandchildren. Her home was a place of welcome, warmth, family and food. She was famous for her cookies, strawberry dessert, and angel food cake. Her family would all gather at her home on Halloween for her vegetable beef soup. Her door was always open and there was always a home cooked meal waiting for anyone.
Arlene was a member of Saints Peter & Paul Catholic Church, and her faith was a center of who she was. She often turned to prayer throughout her day. You could usually find her with a rosary nearby or under her pillow. Her faith guided the way she loved people, the way she treated others, and the way she lived her life. She enjoyed the simple things in life from jigsaw puzzles, card games, People magazine crosswords, reading, and watching “her story” at 12:30 every weekday. She also loved flowers and hummingbirds. She was fond of country music, especially The Statler Brothers and Alan Jackson. She also enjoyed watching St. Louis Cardinal’s baseball and Mizzou basketball. Arlene had a special talent of remembering phone numbers and important dates better than anyone.
Being a survivor of Multiple Sclerosis for over 50 years, Arlene was a resilient fighter who never complained. Even when things became difficult to bear, she faced it with courage. It was in those moments that the love she had given to her family came back to her in the most beautiful way. Her five children cared for her with patience, devotion, and love, just as she had taught them. Arlene had a way of touching the lives of many who came to know her.
Arlene is survived by her husband Oscar “Sonny” Friedrich who resides at Katy Manor; children: Kathy (Donnie) Wilmsmeyer of Franklin, Steve (Sarah) Friedrich, Ricky (Sandy) Friedrich, Brenda (Vernon) Sharp, Jennifer (Chad) Kirchner, all of Boonville; grandchildren: Melissa (Jason) Hundley, Amy (Dustin) LeCave, Matthew (Jayna) Friedrich, Nicholas (Miriam) Sharp, Jared Friedrich, Megan (Justin) Baden, Courtney (Parker) Gross, Amanda Sharp, Melanie (Brogan) Stuart, Paige (Aaron) Schanzmeyer, Samuel (Tiffany) Wiser, Andrew (Olivia) Wiser, Ellise Kirchner; 17 great grandchildren, and several nieces and nephews.
She was preceded in death by her parents and her two sisters, Louise Overstreet and Mabel Simmons.
Visitation will be held from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. on Thursday, March 12, 2026, with the rosary recited at 4:45 p.m. prior to visitation at Howard-Millard Funeral Home. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 10:00 a.m. on Friday, March 13, 2026, at Saints Peter & Paul Catholic Church. Interment will follow at St. John’s UCC Cemetery in Billingsville.
Memorials are suggested to St. John’s UCC Cemetery, 14191 Billingsville Road, Boonville, Missouri 65233 or Saints Peter & Paul Catholic School, 502 7th Street, Boonville, Missouri 65233.
Arrangements are under the direction of Howard-Millard Funeral Home, 1397 Ashley Rd., Boonville, Mo 65233 (660) 882-3381. Condolences may be shared with the family at www.howardfh.com.