01/01/2026
It’s been a journey finding my footing since my mother gained her wings. Some days grief hits me like a ton of bricks, and other days I can breathe a little easier. Each day, I make a conscious choice to treat grief like a visitor, not a roommate.
Today, though, my heart is full of gratitude. I want to take a moment to thank the people who made my mother’s final days on this earth, and her homegoing celebration, something our family will always remember and cherish.
First, I want to thank my Auntie Diane for being by my mother’s side every single day. Watching the bond between sisters, how they raised us and cared for one another, taught me more than I ever realized at the time. I underestimated that bond once, but I never will again.
Sending so much love to my cousin Shaun, who was truly like a daughter to my mother. She never left her side, and for that, I will be forever grateful.
To Auntie Debra, thank you for advocating for my mother. Your voice, your strength, and your love meant more to me than I can put into words.
To Auntie Diane’s children, you have been a constant source of joy and uplift in my mother’s life for as long as I can remember. From family gatherings and parties to laughter and unforgettable moments, Mom always knew she was loved. I’m so thankful for each of you.
To our church family at Midway Missionary Baptist Church (Pastor Edward Reynolds and Judge Penny Brown Reynolds), thank you for standing faithfully beside my mother. Your kindness, prayers, and warm embrace will forever be imprinted on my heart.
And last, but certainly not least, thank you to the Rucker Funeral Home for taking such great care of my mother and helping make this process as smooth as possible. We appreciate you more than you know.
There are many friends and loved ones I may not have mentioned by name. Please know that our gratitude extends to you as well. If I don’t get the chance to thank you in person just yet, know that it will come. Until then, please know how deeply thankful we are.
With gratitude and appreciation,
~ Charles
