Songbird Birth Services

Songbird Birth Services Offering childbirth education and Doula services for both birth and postpartum support, including breastfeeding assistance and education.

My goal is to individuals and families have an informed and empowered pregnancy, birth, and recovery.

ColostrumCountless posts. Comments. Questions. Doubts. “My milk just didn’t come in so I had to supplement on day 2.”Usu...
04/05/2024

Colostrum

Countless posts. Comments. Questions. Doubts. “My milk just didn’t come in so I had to supplement on day 2.”

Usually this is someone who was misled, perhaps accidentally, into thinking they were not producing milk already. You ARE.

1. Milk is made from your blood - some minerals and vitamins are higher or lower based on diet, but even in less than ideal scenarios, your body can sustain your baby.
2. Colostrum IS the milk your newborn needs! Your body is already producing it! I can’t tell you the number of times mothers feel they need to supplement with formula because no one told them that mature milk takes time (+ hormones + FREQUENT milk removal) to come in. It’s thick, sticky, clear-ish or tinged yellow/gold. And you can collect your colostrum at ~36 weeks to store for any potential birth emergencies or separation.
3. Your mature milk (the white creamy stuff we usually think of) comes in between days 2 and 6. Usually I see this happen around day 3, but stress, effective milk removal (and often), genetics, and birth interventions all can impact when this happens. The KEY is to nurse on demand, 8-12 or more times per day, especially at night and in the early morning hours.

Not knowing these things is what keeps women doubting themselves, and the whispers of “you can’t do this” come in. Get informed. Get educated. Take my class. Go to a La League League support group. Get a consult with an IBCLC. And don’t forget - COLOSTRUM IS MILK!

*glandular insufficiency, past trauma, mental or physical health challenges for mom or baby are all real things - this post is addressing situations where breastfeeding IS possible and desired!



Were you given formula before day 4?

People are loving the ebook! Do you have your copy? It's FREE!I love this review!“A great job not putting any stigma on ...
04/03/2024

People are loving the ebook! Do you have your copy? It's FREE!

I love this review!

“A great job not putting any stigma on any type of birth. ANY woman could apply this to their birth!”

Do you know what bothers me about most birth classes? They paint a picture of "If you just do THIS, you can get THAT type of birth," when in reality, there are so many unknowns, and being flexible, prepared, and INFORMED help give you the most actual peace about your decisions.

My ebook isn't about GUARANTEEING any type of birth. But it gives you a whole lot of reasons why it's in your favor to be prepared, and some options on what to do when things don't go as expected. Medicated or unmedicated, this book is guaranteed to open your eyes!

Get your FREE copy here:
https://offers.songbirdbirth.com/epiduralfree

true or false?When your water breaks, it means your baby will be here within the hour!…Shocking fact for those who belie...
03/14/2024

true or false?

When your water breaks, it means your baby will be here within the hour!


Shocking fact for those who believe the birth scenes in movies 😅 >> your water / amniotic sac can tear at any point during labor, or not at all (babies can be born “en caul” with it intact as they emerge!) and there is no evidence showing a set timeline between water breaking and your baby’s birth!
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A bigger indicator of your baby, being born sooner rather than later is their position (how high or low they are in your hips) and your contractions helping thin and open the cervix.
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What about providers breaking water to “help move things along”? I’m posting a longer YouTube video about that this week, but evidence shows that it *can* shorten labor by about 30 minutes. When you start to realize how long labor typically is, 30 minutes is a drop in the bucket for an intervention that comes with a slew of risks . 😅
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My water broke an hour and 15 minutes before my son was born, and you’ll find that “normal” can be water breaking (days) before labor even begins or right as the baby is being born.

Comment “link please!” and I’ll send you the full video when it’s up!

For my Hawaii-based families, here’s a newborn group! Connection is so important 💜
03/09/2024

For my Hawaii-based families, here’s a newborn group! Connection is so important 💜

Join Jade and other families to share the journey of adjusting to life with a newborn. This online group meets every Thursday at 9:30 to 10:30 online. This group is perfect for anyone with a baby under six months old, or for those who are in or recently left the NICU. Register now: https://familyhui.as.me/OnlineBabyHui

03/09/2024

You might be a birth worker if…

Your child mistakes the word “polenta” for “placenta” 😂 😅

He stopped saying “taste bugs” 😭🥹LITERACY AND LITTLE ONES:I know it’s cute when they mispronounce things! Don’t correct ...
03/07/2024

He stopped saying “taste bugs” 😭🥹

LITERACY AND LITTLE ONES:
I know it’s cute when they mispronounce things! Don’t correct them, but I suggest modeling proper language for lots of reasons 😬

They’ll adjust as they learn. Read, sing, talk, and listen when they’re little and before they understand. They’re absorbing it and their literacy will skyrocket ✨

(And just write down and take those precious videos of them speaking things their own way - cause gosh darn it’s cute! 🥹🥹🥹)

If you want specific tools for promoting your baby’s development in the first year, message me! 💜

🤰Still pregnant? Grab my free ebook here: https://offers.songbirdbirth.com/epiduralfree

For local Massachusetts parents, here's an in-person parent group hosted by Postpartum Doula and Breastfeeding Specialis...
03/04/2024

For local Massachusetts parents, here's an in-person parent group hosted by Postpartum Doula and Breastfeeding Specialist Hilary Witcher starting March 7th and May 2.

Check out more here:

I run parent groups so that new moms and dads can build their village, create community and find peer support while going through postpartum / fourth trimester.

03/02/2024

This should bother you.

You HAVE to get political if you care about your rights and the rights of your children. This video outlines why + the very real negative impact that being passive can have.

Traditional midwives, Doulas, birth educators, lactation consultants, and extended family are not criminals for supporting families.

Absolutely ludicrous. Not pono 🙅‍♀️

For real. Pause. Breathe. Let go of that tension in your neck and shoulders and eyebrows. Learning how to let go of the ...
02/29/2024

For real. Pause. Breathe.

Let go of that tension in your neck and shoulders and eyebrows. Learning how to let go of the tension helps your mind and body step into the present.

Being HERE is so important, both in birth and in mothering, and it’s a skill you can practice and grow in!

Comment BREATHE to learn how 🌟

Not sponsored and not an affiliate link. Just a survival tool that could save you and/or your babies’ lives should you e...
02/27/2024

Not sponsored and not an affiliate link. Just a survival tool that could save you and/or your babies’ lives should you ever need it 💜

Keep one in the car, secured to the front somewhere within reach, and one on each keychain that has a car key. $5 could make the difference if you get trapped in your car or if your child gets locked in and you can’t open the doors and have no other timely option.

Even if you don’t have kids, get one. It could save a pet trapped in a locked car. It could save a stranger.

https://resqme.com

02/27/2024

HOT TOPIC: bedsharing

Volume up!
Thanks .leche.league for this catchy tune and the REALITY that most mothers will bedshare at some point but are not taught to do so safely. It’s an amazing way to bond, breastfeed, and rest safely when you follow these safe sleep 7 tips!

Get educated and download my free ebook on shifting your mindset for birth here: https://offers.songbirdbirth.com/epiduralfree

02/26/2024

For the dads: taking a moment to connect and have fun makes the world of difference 💜

Vitamin D is a crucial vitamin, and not overdosing is important: it's a fat soluble vitamin so it doesn't flush out exce...
02/23/2024

Vitamin D is a crucial vitamin, and not overdosing is important: it's a fat soluble vitamin so it doesn't flush out excess through urine! Please look at your lot number if you have Nordic Naturals' Baby liquid vitamin D drops!

Thank you Holistic Lactation for the helpful graphics!

02/21/2024

Postpartum Brain: it's not the same!

02/20/2024

Sometimes the best plan *isn’t* the one you planned for 😆

More information isn’t always better. Not a popular opinion, but Dr. Sara clearly outlines why! 🙌
02/20/2024

More information isn’t always better. Not a popular opinion, but Dr. Sara clearly outlines why! 🙌

Whenever you're offered a medical test, take a moment to consider what will happen with the information gained from it.

Is this something you're happy with?

Could a particular result limit your options in any way?

If a screening test shows that you are carrying group B strep bacteria, have gestational diabetes or have a higher-than-average BMI, for instance, you might be told that you can't birth where you wanted to.

What are the alternatives?

There are always alternatives, including declining the test, or seeking care elsewhere.

Always remember it's your decision. You can say 'yes' or 'no' or 'I need time to think about this.'

And although not everybody realises this, you don't have to have those screening tests in the first place if you don't want them.

If you'd like to know more, or to better understand some of the wider issues around making decisions in pregnancy and childbirth, take a look at my book, "What's Right For Me? Making decisions in pregnancy and childbirth."

It was written to help women, parents and families to better understand how modern maternity care works and how you can make the decisions that are right for you.

More information at www.sarawickham.com/me

Honestly, I'm feeling a little spicy about this one.DAILY, I see posts where a mother mentions something seems off, and ...
02/13/2024

Honestly, I'm feeling a little spicy about this one.

DAILY, I see posts where a mother mentions something seems off, and she's encouraged to ignore that primary red flag because: 1. the doctor said everything looks fine, or 2. "your body was made for this, just trust the process"

Y'ALL: your intuition IS THE PROCESS. Your body has built-in alert systems, and no test, scan, book, class, or affirmation holds greater weight. YOU are the expert of your baby and your body. When something feels off: advocate hard for what you know you need. Your life and your baby's life are too precious.

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