05/17/2026
There may be nothing more emotionally volatile than a fertility journey, especially in third-party reproduction. The milestones bring joy and relief: a successful transfer, 12 weeks, signed contracts. But even far along, outcomes can change in ways you never expect.
After losing a baby at 36 weeks, I learned a great deal about control: What I thought I could manage, and what I simply couldn’t. What ultimately mattered wasn’t the logistics. It was remembering the end goal: a healthy child, and the ability one day to tell them how deeply they were wanted.