01/29/2026
2 patterns I see over and over in 🏳️🌈 men - in dating ❤️ fitness 💪🏼 and lifestyle🌴…
🫣 Avoidant men
Dodge clarity.
Then blame or make excuses when confronted.
Not because they don’t understand —
but because they don’t want to feel the temporary discomfort of change.
They’d rather stay familiar than become who they’re meant to be.
Their blessing lives on the other side of accountability.
😬 Anxious men
Forecast fake problems.
Then create extra work trying to prevent them.
They don’t trust the present moment,
so they armor up in advance…
or people-please their way out of conflict.
They don’t realize one of the cleanest exits is non-engagement and boundaries.
They believe other people’s perception is their most valuable asset.
It isn’t.
Their time and energy are. 💫
So they chase mirrors instead of setting the tone for reflection.