01/29/2026
Michael and I had our first date 4 years ago today. We met online as midlifers in our late 40s. Both of us on our own journey over the past many decades of exploration and growth...trying to find our way in this wild world as singles searching for connection.
When we met, we both just knew that we had found our person...our life partner. It felt clear and aligned. And, we had no idea what we were setting sail on with me having my son full-time (who was 12 almost 13) and what jumping right into full on partnership and co-parenting would be like.
It has been anything but easy but rather we have been thrust into the trenches of our own healing in relationship while also ushering a teenager through portals of his own shadow and struggle.
I work with a lot of midlife women...some married and still searching, many single/divorced and longing for that partnership.
What I can say is that it is very possible to meet someone later in life and it is a VERY different experience coming together at this juncture of our journey.
There is so much richness in this time of life on the whole....midlife...later 40s/50s...and, it is incredibly important to understand that our relationships are going to be uniquely shaped as a result of the decades that we have already lived and experienced the world.
To all of my fellow midlifers who are in the quest for connection in partnership...keep the faith...do the work on yourselves around your expectations of what a relationship looks and feels like at this juncture of life...and stay open to the possibility that the right person will land in your orbit at the exact right moment.
I am out here for support and guidance in any way that I can be!
Keeping the faith,
Alison 🙏🥰❤