03/16/2020
Suggestions for Your Mental Wellbeing during Coronavirus:
1. Monitor what news outlets/social media you are tracking, look for fact-based reports and perhaps limit the number of times you check this each day (enough to be informed, but not overwhelmed/anxious)
2. Stick to a routine as much as possible. Change is difficult for most people and finding comfort in the familiar is often helpful. This could include: sticking to a regular sleep/wake cycle, getting dressed in the morning/showering, eating food at regular times, working from home at regular work hours when possible/working regular work hours as possible, exercise regularly/taking walks/stretching. If you don’t have a routine, consider creating one that feels do-able for you. If you live with others, create a routine together if useful. Note: many yoga, dance, and exercise classes are moving to online- some are even free on Instagram/youtube/etc.
3. Nervous System Regulation Strategies: Identify 1-5 things each day that you have control over/can do or enjoy, set up a facetime/online date with someone you love, stick to a regular mediation routine if you have one, use healthy distraction (reading, projects you have wanted to do, etc), take 10 (or more) belly/diaphragm breaths (even in/out breath and perhaps slightly longer on the outbreath) several times through the day, get outside and move/discharge anxious energy, express yourself (art or “mood mandalas” are great for this), use cold water/ice packs/wet wash clothes on your face to calm your nervous system, share what you are grateful for/love (either in a journal or with a friend/loved one).
4. Limit Stressful Activities & Plan Ahead for them:
a. Grocery stores are difficult place to be right now- try to go at a less busy hour (and less busy location), take a list with you (but expect that many things may be out), and be flexible. Plan a relaxing activity before/after this. Consider delivery if this is available.
b. Track the tendency to avoid and let important tasks pile up: read important email updates from work/school/loved ones, update your calendar with changing events, take time to learn electronic modes of connection. Pace yourself with this though (don’t try to do it all at once).
5. Don’t Suffer Ahead of Time. It is easy for the brain to think towards the future, catastrophize, worry, and imagine the worst. Monitor healthy planning ahead with staying present in the moment. Do a self check-in/body scan and track what it is actually like in the present. Is the sun shining? Do you have the food you need right now? What can you do right now to enjoy the moment?
6. Remember….this will pass. Though it may take some time, this will pass. The nature of life is change.
7. Check with your therapist about continued sessions: therapists are offering a variety of options right now, including video sessions. Connection is important to reduce social isolation/maintain mental health.
Sending you so much love, support, and patience through this time we are navigating together. Art often flourishes during difficult times- so connect with art that speaks to you (music, painting, reading/poetry, writing, drawing, singing, etc)!
With Care,
Aiya