05/23/2024
Hi, this is Haley. Some of you may have noticed there hasn't been a post here in a while, and that is because I have some good news. About a month ago, I received a call from my best friend Jenna Herreman who told me that her friend Josh wanted to talk to me. I was confused because I had never met Josh before. Jenna put Josh on the phone and he told me that he had decided he wanted to donate his kidney! Not only that, but he had also already completed ALL of the rigorous testing and had been officially approved.
Unfortunately, Josh is not the right blood type to be able to donate to me directly, but after seeing some of the posts my friends made here, he found out that he could donate through the National Kidney Registry, which facilitates donor exchanges for people who have eligible donors who are not a match for them.
Basically, Josh decided to donate a kidney to an unknown person in the registry so that I could receive a voucher for the registry. What this means is that Josh's donation will allow me to receive a kidney from another living donor who is part of the exchange program who is a match for me. I was told that they would start searching for a compatible donor for me starting the day that Josh donates. Well, that day is today, as this morning Josh donated his kidney to a stranger and is currently recovering well from a successful surgery!
I'm not sure how long it will take for them to find a compatible donor for me, it will probably take at least a six weeks, maybe longer, but it's looking like there's a high likelihood I will receive a kidney transplant sometime this Summer or Fall.
I am just blown away by the loving kindness and compassion I have been shown. By my friends Jenna Herreman, Sī Pugh, Aaron Grobler, Ani Hentkowski, Katianna Morawitz, Kristian Reynolds as well as my mom Lori Linzell Wilson who helped me have the courage to put myself out there, tell my story, and take on some of the work of doing so. Also, by my family, friends, professors, acquaintance, and strangers who have supported me and shown me love in a multitude of ways throughout this whole process.
Finally, of course to Josh who is donating his kidney with excitement, and who recognizes that we are all interconnected and that this doesn't just benefit me, but it also benefits him as well as all sentient beings.