Cultivating Resilient Teens

Cultivating Resilient Teens "I help parents empower their teenage daughters to build confidence, integrity and resilience for all of life's adventures." That's where I come in.

I'm Shawna B Warner, founder of Cultivating Resilient Teens. I help parents empower their teenage daughters to build confidence, integrity and resilience for all of life's adventures. It's exciting to watch your daughters grow into their own person. And it's hard to lose control and let go. At the same time, teens require some freedom to build their tribe outside the family. That's where they'll uncover their unique gifts. They need resilience to navigate the perception-warping world of social media and other rights of passage. Intense feelings, hormones and differences of opinion can become a turbulent mess. You and your teen deserve a thinking partner to create a new kind of harmony. As a parent to three amazing, challenging, thoughtful and rapidly growing teenagers, Iโ€™ve made my share of mistakes in that turbulent mess. Through my background in clinical social work (MSW) Iโ€™ve come to realize that no matter how resourceful and loving you are it truly does take a village to raise confident, well-adjusted human beings. You canโ€™t do it all on your own. In my company, Cultivating Resilient Teens, I help parents like you empower your teen daughters to develop a strong sense of self, create meaningful relationships, foster a connective family life and design healthy social scenarios.

12/02/2025

When a ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ feels ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป, your daughterโ€™s nervous system ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ธ๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ.โฃ
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Because ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป is ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—น๐˜ in the ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜† as a ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜.โฃ
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If your daughter is:โฃ
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๐Ÿ’ฌ Rewriting textsโฃ
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๐Ÿ˜• Taking the blame โฃ
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She is ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด to ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ถ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† again.โฃ
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Itโ€™s ๐˜๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฒ to ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ the ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฒ.โฃ
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1๏ธโƒฃ ๐—•๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด your ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐˜€ back onto the ๐—ฆ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณโฃ
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2๏ธโƒฃ ๐—š๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ your ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜† by ๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—ฏ๐—ฏ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด your ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€ together or squeezing a ๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฒโฃ
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3๏ธโƒฃ ๐—•๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ IN from ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ your ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ - sensing and following the air as it moves into your belly and OUT through the ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐˜€ of your ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฒ๐˜€โฃ
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(๐—›๐—œ๐—ก๐—ง: try pressing your toes into the floor)โฃ
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4๏ธโƒฃ Reverse your breathโฃ
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Something as ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ as ๐—ด๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด through yourโœ‹โ€™s and following your ๐Ÿ’จ can move your daughter out of ๐Ÿคฏ and into ๐Ÿ˜Œโฃ
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๐˜›๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ฅ๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ง๐˜ข๐˜ณ ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ด ๐˜ฆ๐˜น๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฌ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ท๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ๐Ÿ’›โฃ
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Want more simple, powerful tips?โฃ
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www.cultivatingresilientteens.com

11/10/2025

How can your daughter stay TRUE to herself when things get messy?

Focus.

Ep 48 offers her a surprisingly simple tool to focus her mind - and move from chaos to calm.

HINT: she always has this tool with her.

๐ŸŽงLISTEN IN
Ep 48 What to Do When Your Daughterโ€™s Trying Too Hard to Control the Outcome

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11/10/2025

What can your daughter do when sheโ€™s trying TOO HARD to control the outcome?

This might surprise youโ€ฆ

Over 80% of the clients in my 90 Days to a More Resilient Teens coaching program that over 80% of their mood and motivation are directly influenced by

โ€ข social connections
โ€ข social conflict

We want your daughter to know that

โ€ข feeling confident isnโ€™t about having it all figured out

itโ€™s about STAYING TRUE to yourself when things get messy

How can she stay true to herself?

A FOCUSED mind - grab the simple tool today!

๐ŸŽงLISTEN IN
Ep 48 What to do When Your Daughterโ€™s Trying Too Hard to Control the Outcome

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Are you tired of carrying your daughterโ€™s emotional baggage?If you said YESโ€ฆYou are not alone!Nine out of ten parents re...
11/06/2025

Are you tired of carrying your daughterโ€™s emotional baggage?

If you said YESโ€ฆ

You are not alone!

Nine out of ten parents report on their Work With Shawna page on my website that they are so tired (and guilty) of shouldering the burden of their daughterโ€™s emotional baggage.

Letโ€™s become EMOTIONALLY STABLE together!

๐ŸŽงLISTEN IN: Ep - 47 How to Guide Your Daughter Through Misunderstandings and Messy Friend Drama

Does your teenage daughter ๐™ ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฌ ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™šโฃโฃwho is always desperately trying to control theโ€ฆโฃโฃโ€ข lunch conversation โฃโ€ข weeken...
11/04/2025

Does your teenage daughter ๐™ ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฌ ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™šโฃ
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who is always desperately trying to control theโ€ฆโฃ
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โ€ข lunch conversation โฃ
โ€ข weekend plansโฃ
โฃOr ๐™ข๐™ค๐™ง๐™š ๐™ž๐™ข๐™ฅ๐™ค๐™ง๐™ฉ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™ก๐™ฎ
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How ๐—ฌ๐—ข๐—จ๐—ฅ ๐——๐—”๐—จ๐—š๐—›๐—ง๐—˜๐—ฅ responds to a situation???โฃ
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Oof ๐Ÿคฏ these situations can rattle even the most grounded teenage girl.โฃ
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Please walk your daughter through the 5 Steps from Chaos to Calm ๐Ÿ’›โฃ
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๐ŸŽงLISTEN NOW (itโ€™s less than 10 minutes!)โฃ
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Ep 47 How to Guide Your Daughter Through Misunderstandings and Messy Friend Drama โฃ
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These ๐Ÿฑ ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฝ๐˜€ might just be the solution you need ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ต๐˜ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜„.๐Ÿ’›
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๐ŸŒŸwww.CultivatingResilientTeens.com๐ŸŒŸโฃ
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What does your teenage daughter do when emotions run high and itโ€™s NOT CLEAR what to do next?Whether your teenage daught...
10/31/2025

What does your teenage daughter do when emotions run high and itโ€™s NOT CLEAR what to do next?

Whether your teenage daughter part of aโ€ฆ

Small friend group? A big group?

Or somewhere in-between, this podcast episode will give her the tools she needs to respond to any situation.

Parents describe these tools as โ€œINVALUABLEโ€

So letโ€™s share them with everyone๐Ÿฉท

Hey Parents,โฃโฃOne of the most common questions Iโ€™m getting for ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐—น๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€ ๐—–๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ฝ isโฃโฃโ€œ๐˜ž๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฌ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ...
07/24/2025

Hey Parents,โฃ
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One of the most common questions Iโ€™m getting for ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐—น๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€ ๐—–๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ฝ isโฃ
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โ€œ๐˜ž๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฌ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ฑ ๐˜ฎ๐˜บ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ข๐˜ถ๐˜จ๐˜ฉ๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ง-๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ง๐˜ช๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต?โ€โฃ
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The answer is yes, without question.โฃ
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Whether your daughter has experiencedโ€ฆโฃ
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๐Ÿ’” repeated struggles โฃ
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๐Ÿ˜ or shuts down โฃ
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๐Ÿคฌ or totally overreacts โฃ
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when her ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐˜† - I promise you thereโ€™s a better way.โฃ
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In this workshop, sheโ€™ll gain tools to handle any social situation with clarity and confidence.โฃ
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๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒโ€™๐˜€ ๐˜„๐—ต๐˜† ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐—น๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€ ๐—–๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ฝ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐—น๐—น ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ต๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ:โฃ
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Sheโ€™ll quickly learn the secret formula to move through any situationโ€ฆโฃ
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๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜. ๐—–๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ณ๐˜†. ๐—–๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ.โฃ
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๐—Ÿ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—”๐—ป๐˜…๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜†: When your daughter ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐˜€ more deeply with herself, sheโ€™ll make value-based choices that strengthen her resilience.โฃ
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๐—”๐—ฑ๐˜ƒ๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณ: While social situations can be difficult to navigate (and understand), your daughter will stop overthinking and find ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† in what truly matters.โฃ
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๐—ฆ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ณ๐˜ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐— ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ: Being part of a community of thoughtful thinkers is great for ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด the life and relationships your daughter deserves.โฃ
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๐Ÿ˜Š Clients in my ๐Ÿต๐Ÿฌ ๐——๐—ฎ๐˜†๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฎ ๐— ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ง๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ป coaching program say, โ€œ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™—๐™š๐™จ๐™ฉ ๐™ฉ๐™ค๐™ค๐™ก ๐™„โ€™๐™ซ๐™š ๐™š๐™ซ๐™š๐™ง ๐™ก๐™š๐™–๐™ง๐™ฃ๐™š๐™™!โ€โฃ
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๐Ÿ˜Š Parents describe it as โ€œ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™ซ๐™–๐™ก๐™ช๐™–๐™—๐™ก๐™š!โ€โฃ
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As you can see, the tools in ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐—น๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—–๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ฒ help teenager girls feel more self-confident.โฃ
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And ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ต๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ will too ๐Ÿ’›โฃ
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Please - donโ€™t ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ธ this.โฃ
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Enroll today by emailing:โฃ
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๐˜€๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜„๐—ป๐—ฎ@๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐—น๐˜๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜€.๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ โฃ
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๐—ช๐—ฒโ€™๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ธ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฝ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ผ ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—น ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น๐˜€ ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฑ.โฃ
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Save your daughterโ€™s seat today so she doesnโ€™t miss out.โฃ
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Email shawna@cultivatingresilientteens.comโฃ

07/23/2025

Hey Parents,
What if the angst that your daughter is experiencing isnโ€™t something to fix - but rather - a sign that sheโ€™s ready for more?

Maybe sheโ€™s on the edge of her next big leapโ€ฆa NEW challenge or opportunity that invites her to stretch, grow, and discover what sheโ€™s truly capable of.

So often teenage girls arenโ€™t given the opportunity to explore their true self.

Especially in a world that rewards fitting in over standing out.

Thatโ€™s why Iโ€™m super excited to invite YOUR teenage daughter to a game changing, in-person event in Boulder.

For more information go to:

www.cultivatingresilientteens.com/the-solutions-circle-a-workshop/

Send me a DM

Or email me directly:
Shawna@cultivatingresilientteens.com

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80301-80310, 80314, 80321-80323, 80328, 80329

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I'm Shawna Warner, founder of Cultivating Resilient Teens. I help parents empower their teenage daughters to build confidence, integrity and resilience for all of life's adventures. It's exciting to watch your daughters grow into their own person. And it's hard to lose control and let go. At the same time, teens require some freedom to build their tribe outside the family. That's where they'll uncover their unique gifts. They need resilience to navigate the perception-warping world of social media and other rights of passage. Intense feelings, hormones and differences of opinion can become a turbulent mess. You and your teen deserve a thinking partner to create a new kind of harmony. That's where I come in. As a parent to three amazing, challenging, thoughtful and rapidly growing teenagers, Iโ€™ve made my share of mistakes in that turbulent mess. Through my background in clinical social work (MSW) Iโ€™ve come to realize that no matter how resourceful and loving you are it truly does take a village to raise confident, well-adjusted human beings. You canโ€™t do it all on your own. In my company, Cultivating Resilient Teens, I help parents like you empower your teen daughters to develop a strong sense of self, create meaningful relationships, foster a connective family life and design healthy social scenarios.