03/04/2025
In my work with women, I hear over and over: "Why do I keep attracting the wrong men?"
Dysfunction still functions—and years can slip by chasing dead-end relationships. It feels like Groundhog Day—every relationship starts with hope, but before long, you’re tangled in the same heartbreak. Different face, same dynamic. You wonder: Why does this always end in pain?
💔 The Pattern
You promise yourself, Never again. But somehow, the charm, the intensity, the familiar pull draws you in. You recognize the red flags after you’re already invested. The cycle repeats.
🧠 The Wound
This isn’t just bad luck. Attachment wounds—often formed in childhood or past relationships—create unconscious patterns. You might be seeking the love you never fully received, proving your worth to someone who can’t see it, or feeling stuck in fear of being alone.
These wounds often leave behind deep-seated beliefs:
I am unworthy of love.
I’m only good if someone chooses me.
Love is something I have to earn.
If I set boundaries, I’ll be abandoned.
I have to fix people to be valuable.
✨ The Healing
EMDR therapy helps you heal these wounds at the root. By reprocessing past experiences, your nervous system learns that love doesn’t have to hurt. You develop a new internal compass—one that leads you toward healthy, safe, and reciprocal relationships.
If you’re ready to break the cycle, heal your attachment wounds, and open the door to real love, let’s connect.
You deserve more than a pattern—you deserve peace.
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