11/19/2024
If you are considering traveling with older family members, you might be wondering, Where do I start? There are a few things to consider when traveling with an older person. A few ideas to keep in mind. (suggestions from AARP)
Spend time with your parent before the trip
If you haven’t spent time with your parents recently, you might envision them with the same amount of energy and mobility they had when you were growing up. But as they aged, their ability to do things may have changed.
Discuss ideas for the vacation
You and your parent can discuss all the particulars of a vacation like the destination, time of year, cost and length of the trip. This will ensure everyone is on the same page and that all will have a fun time.
Research accommodations, tour guides and restaurants
Once you have figured out the details of your trip, you can research lodgings, tour guides and restaurants. If your parent has accessibility needs or they aren’t easily mobile, it’s important to make sure the places are able to accommodate their needs. Duplicate routines that parents have at home (if memory is a concern, this will help in decreased confusion). When driving distances, consider opting for rest stops off the highway in smaller, less crowded bathrooms (not the large rest stops) for less hustle and bustle.
Booking a hotel that offers breakfast so parents can take their medications without leaving the hotel, first-floor rooms with a shower (no bathtub to step over) . Another important feature is a sofa bed or lounge chair as a sitting/rest area.
What to pack
As you age, your memory can fade, so creating written packing checklists for your parents is imperative - Include any prescription and over-the-counter medications along with any other needs like incontinence underwear and multiple changes of clothes. “Bring extra medicine, just in case,” and snacks. Hydration is always a concern- kep this in mind, even in the colder weather. If you’re flying, medications should be packed in the carry-on bag in case the checked bag gets lost. A rollator (even if this is not a "usual" item, will come in handy on a longer than usual day for some aging family members - it doesn't have to be used but better safe then sorry).
Build in downtime during your trip
It can be a lot of work traveling with an older person, for all. Make sure one takes the time to slow down and enjoy - overbooking the could create weary travelers. Enjoy the adventure!
