10/13/2025
We all internalize messages from those around us as we grow up. These positive or negative messages shape our internal dialogue and fundamentally influence our self-view. A common challenge arises from receiving what's often called conditional positive regard; love or acceptance that is dependent on someone else's approval of our behavior. This can plant a core "recording" in our minds that repeats a narrative of "I'm not enough" or "I am wrong."
This recording plays constantly, and over time, we begin to mistake it for our own authentic voice. However, it is not our voice; it's a collection of internalized, often harmful, external messages.
By reframing the narrative of our lives, we can begin to separate our authentic self from these absorbed messages. This shift allows us to move away from the paralyzing, shaming thought of, "What's wrong with me?" and instead ask the more compassionate and empowering question, "What happened to me?" This change in perspective is key to moving into a space of healing, truth, and hope.
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