04/25/2026
π Happy 5th Birthday to "My" First Doula Baby! π
π 5 years ago today, I supported my first birth - while actively miscarrying, still working full time in public health, unsure of exactly what I was walking into yet confident enough that it was what I'd unknowingly been working towards for longer than just the lead up from my initial doula training. And thankfully, that was true.
πΏ I took this post-birth selfie before I truly knew just how much "birthwork is activism" really meant beyond a cute T-shirt and before I launched my business/the brand recognition of "the lemon lady birthworker" as someone later joked. π
My husband surprised me with an affirming love note before I ever experienced wondering if I really "got this", with the many layers of doula work.
π This first family trusting me to accompany them changed my life in too many ways to count. In the 5 years since, this family has been one of my biggest champions & I'm forever grateful for their continued support because of how they reflect on the impact of doula support. π
πΏ In the 5 years since they met their daughter (that they were absolutely convinced was a son! ), we've:
πΈBuilt our family w/IVF after recurrent pregnancy loss
πΈLeveled up into a doula agency when the twins were 6m old, while still triple feeding, after returning to interviews at 8d PP and returning to my first birth photography client 6w PP ( π« )
πΈBrought more dreams to reality with creating the home for The Lemon Grove in Boxford, MA.
πΈExpanded our impact in advocacy, mentorship, & teaching, incl. launching & now having completed three full spectrum doula workshop cohorts.
π Growth is consistent hard work, constant building, reassessing, and commitment renewal. It is sometimes invIsible sacrifices, and is always magically fulfilling & deeply meaningful.
πΏ I'm on call for a sweet repeat family, imminently waiting to meet their son, which will be my 200th supported birth. More feels to come from that soon. π
π Most importantly - THANK YOU. Because I love this wild doula life. ππ½
~Marissa H.