03/28/2026
I received so many beautiful, heartfelt messages from women after reading my last substack on midlife. One woman spoke specifically of place — how the place she is does not feel like her and yet she cannot (yet) be in a place that does.
And since this sums up many of the messages I received, I wanted to share my reply in hopes it helps others:
“It is as I said: this could be the story of so many women I know at this important threshold.
Thresholds are truly about this kind of sorting. Thresholds provide clarity and vision. They don’t show us the way — they are the way!
Look for this within the elements rather than a place you cannot be at the moment.
What speaks to you there from the land (and sea and sky and wind and the scape). These give us a better idea of what it is we are desperate for, where we are, and until we can return to our soul place.”
We will discuss more in tomorrow’s online gathering. I will put link to the substack in today’s story or you can visit pegmulqueen.substack.com for the registry link.
In the meantime, a few pics of my special places, in mountains, by rivers, with my (not so little anymore) adventurous companion. 🐾