05/25/2026
In this 30-minute dharma talk, we explore one of the Buddha's most practical and penetrating teachings, the difference between the skillful person who follows the dharma and the unskillful person who follows worldly experience and sensation. Drawing from the Pali teachings on pandita and tanha, we examine why the untrained mind defaults to chasing pleasure, avoiding pain, and building a self that never quite feels solid, and why that road, however natural, leads deeper into suffering rather than out of it. This is not a talk about judgment. It is a talk about seeing clearly, and about the compassion that naturally arises when we do.
We walk through eight recognizable traits of each orientation so you can identify these patterns in your own daily life, not to condemn yourself, but to know the terrain. The unskillful mind is reactive, comparison-driven, and constantly seeking validation from the outside world. The skillful mind is responsive, grounded in reality, ethically consistent, and at ease with impermanence. Neither is a fixed identity. Both live inside every one of us. The path is not about defeating one and perfecting the other, it is about bringing awareness, breath by breath, to which road you are walking in any given moment.
We close with three practical supports drawn from the dharma, recognition without condemnation, the practice of asking the longer question, and returning to the body as an anchor in the present moment. Whether you are new to Buddhist teachings or have been practicing for years, this talk offers a clear and grounded map for understanding why we suffer and how we begin, gently and honestly, to find our way toward liberation. Sit with us, breathe, and let the dharma do its work.
Sathu. Sathu. Sathu.
Buddham Saranam Gacchami
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Vladimir imparts the Buddha's Dharma with warmth and skill, filling the world's deep need for loving-kindness, compassion, and empathy.
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