12/12/2025
Ima get a little woo on ya and say...
Therapy is soul retrieval.
When I talk about soul retrieval, what I mean is the process by which a person moves back into a state of integrated wholeness after soul-level traumas cause fragmentation or disconnection from parts of the soul. This may have happened a very long time ago.
This kind of trauma can result in spiritual-emotional illness, confusion about purpose and belonging in the whole, and a disconnection or misalignment in relationships with the human and other human beings that are part of our soul's web. In this state of fragmentation a person is vulnerable to getting lost from their soul path, relationships, purpose and well-being. In this place we become especially vulnerable to exploitations and being out of integrity with ourselves and our values. 
Here's the thing though - THIS IS SO NORMAL AND COMMON in the West it can be hard to even conceive of an integrated individual, let alone an integrated community. And - I see so much personal and collective healing happening!
The steps for retrieval (but not necessarily in order) are: 1. Identify major misalignments to work, creativity, relationships, or behaviors and start setting intentions for change. 2. Connect with longing and commit to tending the things that are most important. 3. Attend rituals that help releasing and clearing of energies that are harmful. 4. Find the practices that support you to land in your body, heart,and emotions (this varies widely). 5. Go through the hard and scary emotions that are your soul's memory of the trauma and hold/be held through this experience. 6 Integrate the parts of yourself that are coming back on board and the changes that may be required. 7. Hold a celebration or personal rite of passage to honor what you've reclaimed.
All this happens with a buttload of support from other people and unseen ones!
Sometimes we need to set a course and just start moving in the direction of our soul's north star. There's a point in healing when there's a lot of momentum because reconnecting with and loving oneself is so deeply fulfilling.
If you're motivated to do this work, I'm here for you.