Cyndislight

11/04/2025

Hey Love,

I’m doing something a little different this week.

Instead of a fully formed thought, I’m inviting you into one that’s still in the making. Something that’s been rolling around in my heart and brain.

It seems we spend a lot of time thinking about what we’re getting in life, love, and relationship…
I'm curious what shifts when we turn our attention toward what we’re giving?

I’ll be honest—giving feels good to me. I love to give.
But here’s the rub: when my giving isn’t received or appreciated, the desire to keep offering starts to fade.

Reciprocity matters to me. It’s the dance that keeps energy flowing between two hearts.

So I’ve been wondering… what happens when we orient toward our giving while also staying wide open to receive?

When we not only offer our gifts freely, but also let others give to us—and really take it in?

Because I think that’s where the wholeness lives.

🍥The giving and the receiving complete each other—they make love’s circle whole.

So I’d truly love to hear from you.

💭What comes up for you when you think about giving and receiving?

✨Where do you feel the flow—and where does it stop?

➡️Hit reply and tell me what stirs in you. I’d love to hear from you.

WAYS TO WORK WITH ME

❤️‍🔥BODYWORK - COME HOME TO YOURSELF:

This isn’t just about relaxation—it’s about homecoming.
Through intuitive, healing touch, I listen with my hands to what your body needs in order to feel whole.
My work moves beyond muscles into the deeper layers of what’s underneath the pain, helping you release what’s held, reclaim what’s yours, and return to yourself in a profound way.
Clients often describe it as long-lasting, soul-level healing—not just a massage.

❤️‍🔥BREATHWORK - THE POWER OF BREATH:
Your breath is the ultimate life hack. In just minutes, it can shift you from reactivity into choice—out of spiraling emotions and back into clarity, calm, and presence.
Breathwork lowers anxiety, softens stress in the body, and restores your power to respond rather than react.
In guided sessions, we go deeper—safely meeting trauma, inviting transformation, and cultivating a grounded sense of who you are that lasts long after the practice ends.
Available one-on-one or in group sessions, in-person or online.

❤️‍🔥SEX, LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP COACHING - THE BRIDGE TO LOVE:
You don’t need another self-help book—you need someone who gets it.
Maybe you’ve been crying in your cereal, feeling like love is a language you just can’t speak.
Maybe you’re exhausted from doing all the “right” things and still ending up alone, misunderstood, or unfulfilled.
I help you trade drama for depth, confusion for clarity, and “is this all there is?” for “holy hell, this feels good.”
Together, we’ll bridge the gap between where you are and where you want to be—into relationships that are nourishing, honest, s*xy, and real.
And yes, sometimes that means going from tears to laughter, from heartbreak to holy fire, from lonely nights to swinging-from-the-chandelier mornings.
Available in-person and remotely.

❤️‍🔥MISTRESS OF CEREMONIES - THE ART OF SACRED GATHERINGS:
Ready to turn an ordinary gathering into something unforgettable?
Whether you’re celebrating, marking a transition, or simply craving something deeper than cocktails and chit-chat, I’ll help you craft a transformational experience your people will never forget.
We’ll co-create a one-of-a-kind event that’s soulful, intentional, and wildly memorable—custom-designed for you.

ALSO...

☀️I co-host a podcast called Daytime Slumber Party! It is available on
all platforms. Here is the Spotify link: open.spotify.com/show/7yjhuvcyd9051PQz1O4vNp?si=4674803b20b74d9e

☀️If you know someone who would also enjoy these emails send them this link:
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11/03/2025

We get through this together.

Please don't isolate.

Say yes to being cared for, tended - renewed.

You'd be amazed at how much even just one hour can change your world!

I'm here for that❤️

XOXO The Relationship Maven
BREATHWORK ⭐ BODYWORK ⭐ COACHING

10/31/2025

Mystic Market is in full swing! Come and check us out.

Come get your bones ready, tarot, occult items, gemstones and henna!!!

Oh! And I'm doing oracle body readings, talking s*x magic and playing with the relationship fortunteller 😍

.kitsap

10/29/2025

Exciting things coming up and check-in.

How are you, Love. Are you feeling connected and well tended? Resourced?

I'm here and ready ❤️

XOXO The Relationship Maven
BREATHWORK ⭐ BODYWORK ⭐ COACHING

10/28/2025

Greetings Love,

This past weekend, I had the honor of attending a communal grief ritual.

What I left there knowing - hours later, heart soft and lighter in my being - was that meeting grief benefits immeasurably from being witnessed and shared in community.

It needs arms, not isolation.

In the closing reflection of the ritual, this phrase came to me:
Make a house for your grief.

We try to package it up, it feels like “too much”.
We tuck it neatly on a shelf.
But grief is part of being human. It deserves space.
It deserves our loving attention.

So… how full is your house of grief?
What lives there?
When was the last time you visited?

When I gave myself permission to step inside mine—surrounded by others doing the same - the energy moved.

I opened the big heavy doors of my grief house and the contents came spilling out.

If you haven't experienced sharing grief, I urge you to try.

That grief ritual helped me release some of what I’d been carrying. It created space for other energies, thoughts and possibility.

If you’re curious about what it might feel like to check on your own “house of grief,” to be gently witnessed and held…

Let’s make space together.

You are not meant to carry it alone.

With fierce tenderness,

WAYS TO WORK WITH ME

❤️‍🔥BODYWORK - COME HOME TO YOURSELF:
This isn’t just about relaxation—it’s about homecoming.
Through intuitive, healing touch, I listen with my hands to what your body needs in order to feel whole.
My work moves beyond muscles into the deeper layers of what’s underneath the pain, helping you release what’s held, reclaim what’s yours, and return to yourself in a profound way.
Clients often describe it as long-lasting, soul-level healing—not just a massage.

❤️‍🔥BREATHWORK - THE POWER OF BREATH:
Your breath is the ultimate life hack. In just minutes, it can shift you from reactivity into response - ability. Out of spiraling emotions and back into clarity, calm, and presence.
Breathwork lowers anxiety, softens stress in the body, and restores your power to respond rather than react.
In guided sessions, we go deeper—safely meeting trauma, inviting transformation, and cultivating a grounded sense of who you are that lasts long after the practice ends.
Available one-on-one or in group sessions, in-person or online.

❤️‍🔥SEX, LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP COACHING - THE BRIDGE TO LOVE
Maybe you’re exhausted from doing all the “right” things and still ending up alone, misunderstood, or unfulfilled.
I help you trade drama for depth, confusion for clarity, and “is this all there is?” for “holy hell, this feels good.”
Together, we’ll bridge the gap between where you are and where you want to be—into relationships that are nourishing, honest, s*xy, and real.
And yes, sometimes that means going from tears to laughter, from heartbreak to holy fire, from lonely nights to swinging-from-the-chandelier mornings.
Available in-person and remotely.

❤️‍🔥MISTRESS OF CEREMONIES - THE ART OF SACRED GATHERINGS
Ready to turn an ordinary gathering into something unforgettable?
Whether you’re celebrating, marking a transition, or simply craving something deeper than cocktails and chit-chat, I’ll help you craft a transformational experience your people will never forget.
We’ll co-create a one-of-a-kind event that’s soulful, intentional, and wildly memorable—custom-designed for you.

ALSO...

☀️Mystic Market this Thursday 10/30 from 5-9 @ Grumble and Wine. Stop by and meet the Maven. Let's chat S*x Magic and other ways to create relationships that are other worldly! Here's the FB link: facebook.com/share/17Y3qAAC9h (https://www.facebook.com/share/17Y3qAAC9h/)

☀️Evening with the Ancestors - the first in a 3 part seasonal ritual breathwork series "Breathing between the worlds - The Solstice Descent into Darkness". November 3rd @ 6:00.

☀️I co-host a podcast called Daytime Slumber Party! It is available on all platforms. Here is the Spotify link: open.spotify.com/show/7yjhuvcyd9051PQz1O4vNp?si=4674803b20b74d9e

☀️If you know someone who would also enjoy these emails send them this link:
squareup.com/customer-programs/enroll/PLDmUtwoNbvo?utm_medium=copied-link&utm_source=online

10/27/2025

Stop by and see the Relationship Maven. Ask me about 6x Magic and other ways to make your relationship out of this world!

https://www.facebook.com/share/1AAHYkDoqo/

Send a message to learn more

10/27/2025

Together is how we make magic happen.

Do you need a little magic?

I got you!

XOXO The Relationship Maven
BREATHWORK ⭐ BODYWORK ⭐ COACHING

10/24/2025

What an amazing way to end the week and start the weekend, don't you think?

I do!

XOXO The Relationship Maven
BREATHWORK ⭐ BODYWORK ⭐ COACHING

10/21/2025

Greetings Love,

I heard this on a recent podcast and it has been echoing ever since:
“Healing is a byproduct of connection.”

That feels like a deep truth.

When we’re disconnected—from our bodies, our breath, our people—we start to wilt, as if a food source has been cut off.

But when connection flows? We are alive and vibrant.

So I’ve been thinking about the small, ordinary ways connection shows up.

Think about your morning.

What’s your first connection when you wake up?
Before you reach for your phone, before you slip into autopilot—what meets you first?

For me, it’s consciousness itself.

That delicious moment of oh, I’m here - I'm alive.
Then the slow awareness of breath—the gentle dance between inhale and exhale.

Already, I’m in relationship.

Some mornings I read poetry.

Other days, I touch my own skin just to remember I’m made of stardust and the blood of my ancstors.

Sometimes I whisper gratitude.

Connection is foreplay for life - for the soul.
It’s how we remember who we are.

How we heal.
How we open

So tell me…
Where are you most connected these days?

To your body?
To the earth beneath you?
To the people who light you up—or the ones who challenge your edges?
To fear?

Where could you use some support with connection?

Healing isn’t something to chase—it’s what happens naturally when you come back into alignment. When you slow down and connect to what’s true in this moment.

If you’ve been feeling a little out of sync, a little less sparkly, maybe it’s time to reconnect—to yourself, to your desires, to your aliveness.

That’s where I come in.
Let’s get you re-connected, re-awakened, and re-enchanted with your life.

With fierce love,

WAYS TO WORK WITH ME

❤️‍🔥BODYWORK - COME HOME TO YOURSELF:

This isn’t just about relaxation—it’s about homecoming.
Through intuitive, healing touch, I listen with my hands to what your body needs in order to feel whole.
My work moves beyond muscles into the deeper layers of what’s underneath the pain, helping you release what’s held, reclaim what’s yours, and return to yourself in a profound way.
Clients often describe it as long-lasting, soul-level healing—not just a massage.

❤️‍🔥BREATHWORK - THE POWER OF BREATH:
Your breath is the ultimate life hack. In just minutes, it can shift you from reactivity into choice—out of spiraling emotions and back into clarity, calm, and presence.
Breathwork lowers anxiety, softens stress in the body, and restores your power to respond rather than react.
In guided sessions, we go deeper—safely meeting trauma, inviting transformation, and cultivating a grounded sense of who you are that lasts long after the practice ends.
Available one-on-one or in group sessions, in-person or online.

❤️‍🔥SEX, LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP COACHING - THE BRIDGE TO LOVE:
You don’t need another self-help book—you need someone who gets it.
Maybe you’ve been crying in your cereal, feeling like love is a language you just can’t speak.
Maybe you’re exhausted from doing all the “right” things and still ending up alone, misunderstood, or unfulfilled.
I help you trade drama for depth, confusion for clarity, and “is this all there is?” for “holy hell, this feels good.”
Together, we’ll bridge the gap between where you are and where you want to be—into relationships that are nourishing, honest, s*xy, and real.
And yes, sometimes that means going from tears to laughter, from heartbreak to holy fire, from lonely nights to swinging-from-the-chandelier mornings.
Available in-person and remotely.

❤️‍🔥MISTRESS OF CEREMONIES - THE ART OF SACRED GATHERINGS
Ready to turn an ordinary gathering into something unforgettable?
Whether you’re celebrating, marking a transition, or simply craving something deeper than cocktails and chit-chat, I’ll help you craft a transformational experience your people will never forget.
We’ll co-create a one-of-a-kind event that’s soulful, intentional, and wildly memorable—custom-designed for you.

ALSO...

☀️Evening with the Ancestors - the first in a 3 part seasonal ritual breathwork series "Breathing between the worlds - The Solstice Descent into Darkness". November 3rd @ 6:00.

☀️I co-host a podcast called Daytime Slumber Party! It is available on all platforms. Here is the Spotify link: open.spotify.com/show/7yjhuvcyd9051PQz1O4vNp?si=4674803b20b74d9e

☀️If you know someone who would also enjoy these emails send them this link:
squareup.com/customer-programs/enroll/PLDmUtwoNbvo?utm_medium=copied-link&utm_source=online

10/21/2025

Last minute opening, tomorrow.

Is it yours?

I'd love to see you!

XOXO The Relationship Maven
BREATHWORK ⭐ BODYWORK ⭐ COACHING

10/20/2025

Practice being in the center.

The center of yourself, the center of your life.

Being in the center, make it strong, passionate, peace.

And then move into the world

We need to get right with ourselves first.

I can help ❤️

XOXO The Relationship Maven
BREATHWORK ⭐ BODYWORK ⭐ COACHING