11/08/2025
With holidays and gatherings coming up, you may see a child (or adult) eating something different from everyone else, maybe food from home, maybe the same âsafeâ foods each time or avoiding mixed or new foods.
Before commenting, teasing, pushing, or assuming theyâre being âpickyâ or rude, pause.
Its important to know ARFID (Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder) is not about being dramatic or difficult, and is not about dieting or body image. It comes from fear, sensory overwhelm, medical trauma, or nervous system dysregulation around food.
And hereâs what matters most:
đ Itâs not the childâs fault.
đ Itâs not the parentâs fault.
đ And shaming someone never helps them eat more bravely, it can even make food feel scarier.
Let people feel safe at the table.
Meeting someone where they are is care.
Progress comes from support, not pressure.
If youâd like ARFID-friendly strategies or support resources, comment SUPPORT or send me a message, Iâm happy to help đ