Eastern Maine Area Of Narcotics Anonymous, Brewer, ME (2025)

04/23/2022

April 23
A God of our own understanding
Many of us understand God to be simply whatever force keeps us clean.

Basic Text, p. 25

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Some of us enter recovery with a working understanding of a Higher Power. For a lot of us, however, God is a troublesome word. We may doubt the existence of any sort of Power greater than ourselves. Or we may remember uncomfortable experiences with religion and shy away from the God stuff.

Starting over in recovery means we can start over in our spiritual life, too. If were not comfortable with what we learned when we were growing up, we can try a different approach to our spirituality. We dont have to understand everything all at once or find the answers to all our questions right away. Sometimes its enough just to know that other NA members believe and that their belief helps keep them clean.

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Just for today: All I have to know right now about my Higher Power is that it is the Power that helps keep me clean.

04/22/2022

April 22
Traveling the open road
This is our road to spiritual growth.

Basic Text, p. 37

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When we arrived at our first NA meeting, it looked like the end of the road to many of us. We werent going to be able to use anymore. We were spiritually bankrupt. Most of us were totally isolated and didnt think we had much to live for. Little did we realize that, as we began our program of recovery, we were stepping onto a road of unlimited possibilities.

At first, just not using was tough enough. Yet, as we watched other addicts working the steps and applying those principles in their lives, we began to see that recovery was more than just not using. The lives of our NA friends had changed. They had a relationship with the God of their understanding. They were responsible members of the fellowship and of society. They had a reason to live. We began to believe these things were possible for us, too.

As we continue our recovery journey, we can get sidetracked by complacency, intolerance, or dishonesty. When we do, we need to recognize the signs quickly and get back on our paththe open road to freedom and growth.

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Just for today: I am continuing to develop my spiritual, social, and general living skills by applying the principles of my program. I can travel as far as I wish on the open road of recovery.

04/21/2022

April 21
Fear
We have found that we had no choice except to completely change our old ways of thinking or go back to using.

Basic Text, p. 22

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Many of us find that our old ways of thinking were dominated by fear. We were afraid that we wouldnt be able to get our drugs or that there wouldnt be enough. We feared discovery, arrest, and incarceration. Further down the list were fears of financial problems, homelessness, overdose, and illness. And our fear controlled our actions.

The early days of recovery werent a great deal different for many of us; then, too, fear dominated our thinking. What if staying clean hurts too much? we asked ourselves. What if I cant make it? What if the people in NA dont like me? What if NA doesnt work? The fear behind these thoughts can still control our behavior, keeping us from taking the risks necessary to stay clean and grow. It may seem easier to resign ourselves to certain failure, giving up before we start, than to risk everything on a slim hope. But that kind of thinking leads only to relapse.

To stay clean, we must find the willingness to change our old ways of thinking. What has worked for other addicts can work for usbut we must be willing to try it. We must trade in our old cynical doubts for new affirmations of hope. When we do, well find its worth the risk.

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Just for today: I pray for the willingness to change my old ways of thinking, and for the ability to overcome my fears.

04/20/2022

“Learning to survive our impulses without acting out is a new freedom. Over time, the desire to act against our values begins to fade."(LC)

04/20/2022

April 20
Detachment
Addiction is a family disease, but we could only change ourselves.

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Many of us come from severely damaged families. At times, the insanity that reigns among our relatives feels overwhelming. Sometimes we feel like packing our bags and moving far, far away.

We pray that our family members will join us in recovery but, to our great sadness, this does not always happen. Sometimes, despite our best efforts to carry the message, we find that we cannot help those we hold most dear. Our group experience has taught us that, frequently, we are too close to our relatives to help them. We learn it is better to leave them in our Higher Powers care.

We have found that when we stop trying to settle the problems of family members, we give them the room they need to work things out in their own lives. By reminding them that we are not able to solve their problems for them, we give ourselves the freedom to live our own lives. We have faith that God will help our relatives. Often, the best thing we can give our loved ones is the example of our own ongoing recovery. For the sake of our familys sanity and our own, we must let our relatives find their own ways to recover.

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Just for today: I will seek to work my own program and leave my family in the care of a Higher Power.

04/19/2022

April 19
Footwork
So many times, addicts have sought the rewards of hard work without the labor.

Basic Text, p. 34

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When we first came to NA, some of us wanted everything, and right away. We wanted the serenity, the cars, the happy relationships, the friends, the closeness with our sponsorall the things other people had gotten after months and years of working the steps and living life on lifes terms.

We learned the hard way that serenity comes only from working the steps. A new car comes from showing up on the job every day and trying to practice these principles in all our affairs, including our employment. Healthy relationships come as a result of lots of hard work and a new willingness to communicate. Friendship with our sponsor comes as a result of reaching out during the good times as well as the bad.

In Narcotics Anonymous, we have found the path to a better way of life. To reach our destination, however, we must do the footwork.

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Just for today: I want a better life. I will make an inventory of what I want, find out how to get it, talk with my sponsor about it, and do the necessary footwork.

04/18/2022

“Finding a new way to live is not something we do just once. Some of us experience great upheaval as we try again and again to find a life that makes sense for us. But we continue to carry the message, using our experience to help others. The more experience we have to share, the richer our message can become."(LC)

04/18/2022

April 18
"I understand"
We humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.

Step Seven

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Once we are entirely ready to have our character defects removed, many of us are entirely ready! Ironically, thats when the trouble really starts. The more we struggle to rid ourselves of a particular defect, the stronger that shortcoming seems to become. It is truly humbling to realize that not only are we powerless over our addiction, but even over our own defects of character.

Finally, it clicks. The Seventh Step doesnt suggest that we rid ourselves of our shortcomings, but that we ask our Higher Power to rid us of them. The focus of our daily prayers begins to shift. Admitting our inability to perfect ourselves, we plead with our Higher Power to do for us what we cannot do for ourselves. And we wait.

For many days, our program may stay on Step Seven. We may experience no sudden, total relief from defectsbut we often do experience a subtle shift in our perceptions of ourselves and others. Through the eyes of the Seventh Step, we begin to see those around us in a less critical way. We know that, just like us, many of them are struggling with shortcomings they would dearly love to be rid of. We know that, just like us, they are powerless over their own defects. We wonder if they, too, humbly pray to have their defects removed.

We begin evaluating others as we have learned to evaluate ourselves, with an empathy born of humility. As we watch others, and as we keep watch on ourselves, we can finally say, I understand.

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Just for today: God, help me see through the eyes of Step Seven. Help me understand.

04/17/2022

April 17
Priority: meetings
I initially felt that it would be impossible to attend more than one or two meetings a week. It just wouldnt fit in with my busy schedule. I later learned that my priorities were [180] degrees reversed. It was the everything else that would have to fit into my meeting schedule.

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Some of us attended meetings infrequently when we first came to Narcotics Anonymous, then wondered why we couldnt stay clean. What we soon learned was that if we wanted to stay clean, we had to make meeting attendance our priority.

So we began again. Following our sponsors suggestion, we made a commitment to attend ninety meetings in ninety days. We identified ourselves as newcomers for our first thirty days so that others could get to know us. At our sponsors direction, we stopped talking long enough to learn to listen. We soon began to look forward to meetings. And we began to stay clean.

Today, we attend meetings for a variety of reasons. Sometimes we go to meetings to share our experience, strength, and hope with newer members. Sometimes we go to see our friends. And sometimes we go just because we need a hug. Occasionally we leave a meeting and realize that we havent really heard a word thats been saidbut we still feel better. The atmosphere of love and joy that fills our meetings has kept us clean another day. No matter how hectic our schedule, we make meeting attendance our priority.

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Just for today: In my heart, I know that meetings benefit me in all kinds of ways. Today, I want whats good for me. I will attend a meeting.

04/16/2022

April 16
Acting as if
Today, we seek solutions, not problems. We try what we have learned on an experimental basis.

Basic Text, p. 58

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The first time we heard that we should act as if, many of us exclaimed, But thats not honest! I thought we were always supposed to be honest about our feelings in Narcotics Anonymous.

Perhaps we can reflect on when we first came into the program. We may not have believed in God, but we prayed anyway. Or maybe we werent sure the program would work for us, but we kept coming to meetings regardless of what we thought. The same applies as we progress in recovery. We may be terrified of crowds, but if we act confidently and extend our hand, well not only feel better about ourselves, well find that we are no longer so frightened of large gatherings.

Each action we take in this vein brings us closer to becoming the people we were meant to be. Each positive change we make builds our self-esteem. Through acting differently, we will realize that we are beginning to think differently. We are living ourselves into right thinking by acting as if.

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Just for today: I will take the opportunity to act as if I can accept a situation I used to run from.

04/15/2022

April 15
Keep coming back
We have come to enjoy living clean and want more of the good things that the NA Fellowship holds for us.

Basic Text, p. 27

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Can you remember a time when you looked at the addicts recovering in NA and wondered, If they arent using drugs, what on earth do they have to laugh about? Did you believe that the fun stopped when the using stopped? So many of us did; we were certain that we were leaving the good life behind. Today, many of us can laugh at that misconception because we know how full our life in recovery can be.

Many of the things we enjoy so much in recovery are gained by actively participating in the Fellowship of NA. We begin to find true companionship, friends who understand and care about us just for ourselves. We find a place where we can be useful to others. There are recovery meetings, service activities, and fellowship gatherings to fill our time and occupy our interests. The fellowship can be a mirror to reflect back to us a more accurate image of who we are. We find teachers, helpers, friends, love, care, and support. The fellowship always has more to offer us, as long as we keep coming back.

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Just for today: I know where the good life is. Ill keep coming back.

04/14/2022

April 14
A new vision
Do we really want to be rid of our resentments, our anger, our fear?

Basic Text, p. 34

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Why do we call them shortcomings? Perhaps they should be called long-goings, because thats often what it takes for them to fade from our lives. Some of us feel that our shortcomings are the very characteristics that saved our lives when we used. If this is true, then it is little wonder that we sometimes cling to them like old, dear friends.

If we are having trouble with resentment, anger, or fear, we may want to envision what our lives could be like without these troubling defects. Asking ourselves why we react in a certain manner can sometimes root out the fear at the core of our conduct. Why am I afraid to step beyond these aspects of my personality? we ask ourselves. Am I afraid of who I will be without these attributes?

Once we have uncovered our fear, we are able to move beyond it. We try to imagine what our lives could be like without some of our more glaring shortcomings. This gives us a feeling for what lies past our fear, providing the motivation we need to push through it. Our Higher Power offers us a new vision for our lives, free of our defects. That vision is the essence of our own best, brightest dreams for ourselves. We need not fear that vision.

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Just for today: I will imagine what my life would be like without my character defects. I will ask for the willingness to have God remove my shortcomings.

04/13/2022

April 13
People-pleasing..approval-seeking behavior carried us further into our addiction....

Basic Text, p. 14

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When others approve of what we do or say, we feel good; when they disapprove, we feel bad. Their opinions of us, and how those opinions make us feel, can have positive value. By making us feel good about steering a straight course, they encourage us to continue doing so. People-pleasing is something else entirely. We people-please when we do things, right or wrong, solely to gain another persons approval.

Low self-esteem can make us think we need someone elses approval to feel okay about ourselves. We do whatever we think it will take to make them tell us were okay. We feel good for awhile. Then we start hurting. In trying to please another person, weve diminished ourselves and our values. We realize that the approval of others will not fill the emptiness inside us.

The inner satisfaction we seek can be found in doing the right things for the right reasons. We break the people-pleasing cycle when we stop acting merely to gain others approval and start acting on our Higher Powers will for us. When we do, we may be pleasantly surprised to find that the people who really count in our lives will approve all the more of our behavior. Most importantly, though, we will approve of ourselves.

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Just for today: Higher Power, help me live in accordance with spiritual principles. Only then can I approve of myself.

04/12/2022

April 12
The big picture
All spiritual awakenings have some things in common. Common elements include an end to loneliness and a sense of direction in our lives.

Basic Text, p. 50

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Some kinds of spiritual experiences take place when we confront something larger than we are. We suspect that forces beyond our understanding are operating. We see a fleeting glimpse of the big picture and find humility in that moment.

Our journey through the Twelve Steps will bring about a spiritual experience of the same nature, only more profound and lasting. We undergo a continual process of ego-deflation, while at the same time we become more conscious of the larger perspective. Our view of the world expands to the point where we no longer possess an exaggerated sense of our own importance.

Through our new awareness, we no longer feel isolated from the rest of the human race. We may not understand why the world is the way it is or why people sometimes treat one another so savagely. But we do understand suffering and, in recovery, we can do our best to alleviate it. When our individual contribution is combined with others, we become an essential part of a grand design. We are connected at last.

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Just for today: I am but one person in the entire scheme of things. I humbly accept my place in the big picture.

04/11/2022

April 11
A closed mind
A new idea cannot be grafted onto a closed mind.... Open-mindedness leads us to the very insights that have eluded us during our lives.

Basic Text, p. 96

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We arrived in NA at the lowest point in our lives. Wed just about run out of ideas. What we needed most when we got here were new ideas, new ways of living, shared from the experience of people whod seen those ideas work. Yet our closed minds prevented us from taking in the very ideas we needed to live.

Denial keeps us from appreciating just how badly we really need new ideas and new direction. By admitting our powerlessness and recognizing how truly unmanageable our lives have become, we allow ourselves to see how much we need what NA has to offer.

Self-dependence and self-will can keep us from admitting even the possibility of the existence a Power greater than ourselves. However, when we admit the sorry state self-will has gotten us into, we open our eyes and our minds to new possibilities. When others tell us of a Power that has brought sanity to their lives, we begin to believe that such a Power may do the same for us.

A tree stripped of its branches will die unless new branches can be grafted onto its trunk. In the same way, addiction stripped us of whatever direction we had. To grow or even to survive, we must open our minds and allow new ideas to be grafted onto our lives.

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Just for today: I will ask my Higher Power to open my mind to the new ideas of recovery.

04/10/2022

April 10
Too busy
We must use what we learn or we will lose it, no matter how long we have been clean.

Basic Text, p. 85

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After putting some clean time together, some of us have a tendency to forget what our most important priority is. Once a week or less we say, Ive gotta get to a meeting tonight. Its been... Weve been caught up in other things, important for sure, but no more so than our continued participation in Narcotics Anonymous.

It happens gradually. We get jobs. We reunite with our families. Were raising children, the dog is sick, or were going to school at night. The house needs to be cleaned. The lawn needs to be mowed. We have to work late. Were tired. Theres a good show at the theater tonight. And all of a sudden, we notice that we havent called our sponsor, been to a meeting, spoken to a newcomer, or even talked to God in quite a while.

What do we do at this point? Well, we either renew our commitment to our recovery, or we continue being too busy to recover until something happens and our lives become unmanageable. Quite a choice! Our best bet is to put more of our energy into maintaining the foundation of recovery on which our lives are built. That foundation makes everything else possible, and it will surely crumble if we get too busy with everything else.

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Just for today: I cant afford to be too busy to recover. I will do something today that sustains my recovery.

04/09/2022

April 9
Acting out
We learn to experience feelings and realize they can do us no harm unless we act on them.

IP No. 16, For the Newcomer

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Many of us came to Narcotics Anonymous with something less than an overwhelming desire to stop using. Sure, the drugs were causing us problems, and we wanted to be rid of the problems, but we didnt want to stop getting high. Eventually, though, we saw that we couldnt have one without the other. Even though we really wanted to get loaded, we didnt use; we werent willing to pay the price anymore. The longer we stayed clean and worked the program, the more freedom we experienced. Sooner or later, the compulsion to use was lifted from us completely, and we stayed clean because we wanted to live clean.

The same principles apply to other negative impulses that may plague us. We may feel like doing something destructive, just because we want to. Weve done it before, and sometimes we think weve gotten away with it, but sometimes we havent. If were not willing to pay the price for acting on such feelings, we dont have to act on them.

It may be hard, maybe even as hard as it was to stay clean in the beginning. But others have felt the same way and have found the freedom not to act on their negative impulses. By sharing about it and seeking the help of other recovering people and a Power greater than ourselves, we can find the direction, the support, and the strength we need to abstain from any destructive compulsion.

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Just for today: Its okay to feel my feelings. With the help of my sponsor, my NA friends, and my Higher Power, I am free not to act out my negative feelings.

04/08/2022

April 8
Happiness
We come to know happiness, joy, and freedom.

Basic Text, p. 91

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If someone stopped you on the street today and asked if you were happy, what would you say? Well, gee, lets see... I have a place to live, food in the refrigerator, a job, my car is running... Well, yes, I guess Im happy, you might respond. These are outward examples of things that many of us have traditionally associated with happiness. We often forget, however, that happiness is a choice; no one can make us happy.

Happiness is what we find in our involvement with Narcotics Anonymous. The happiness we derive from a life focused on service to the addict who still suffers is great indeed. When we place service to others ahead of our own desires, we find that we take the focus off ourselves. As a result, we live a more contented, harmonious life. In being of service to others, we find our own needs more than fulfilled.

Happiness. What is it, really? We can think of happiness as contentment and satisfaction. Both of these states of mind seem to come to us when we least strive for them. As we live just for today, carrying the message to the addict who still suffers, we find contentment, happiness, and a deeply meaningful life.

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Just for today: I am going to be happy. I will find my happiness by being of service to others.

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