04/13/2026
That first stretch of skin to skin does more than most people realize. It is not just a cute moment after birth, it is active, functional, and deeply supportive! A newborn placed directly on a parent’s chest begins to regulate their temperature, heart rate, and breathing with surprising efficiency, often more effectively than external warming methods like a heating pad. Blood sugar stabilizes, feeding cues begin to show up, and baby is exposed to familiar bacteria that help start shaping their microbiome.
There is also a hormonal piece happening in real time! Oxytocin rises, which supports bonding, helps the uterus contract, and can even reduce bleeding. Babies who stay skin to skin tend to cry less, conserve more energy, and transition more smoothly into those first hours outside the womb. You can watch it happen. A baby who was unsettled will soften, their body relaxes, their breathing evens out, and they find a rhythm again.
In those first couple of hours, there are usually moments where mom needs to get up. Maybe out of the birth pool, up to use the bathroom, rinse off, or just get more comfortable after birth. Maybe just to have a break! When that happens, we are always thinking about how to keep that same level of support going for baby. Instead of swaddling or placing baby in a separate space, we try to keep skin to skin going whenever we can.
If dad is able, we will often suggest he take his shirt off and hold baby skin to skin during that time. Not as a replacement, but as a continuation. Baby stays warm, regulated, and connected, and the transition stays gentle instead of abrupt.
And then when mom is ready, baby goes right back to her chest, often rooting, ready to feed, and picking up exactly where they left off. There is no disruption, just a steady flow of support from one set of arms to another.
Skin to skin is not just one moment right after birth. It is something we come back to again and again in those early hours and even days. Fussy baby, regulate with skin to skin. Trouble latching, start with skin to skin. Just wanting to soak in those first days, skin to skin. ❤️