05/16/2025
If a man didn’t see his mother receiving much affection or emotional interest from his father, he will often grow up emotionally disconnected. Not because he chooses to be, but because he never learned how to love with emotional presence. He never saw what it looks like when a woman is held not just physically, but emotionally.
And that's one of the reasons why so many women today are suffering in relationships. They live with men who are physically present but emotionally absent—men who may provide, protect, or even stay loyal, but don’t know how to be tender, curious, or emotionally available.
Dear man, this is not to blame you. This is to bring awareness to the roots. If you grew up watching your mother carry the emotional weight alone, then maybe no one ever showed you how to carry that for your own woman. Maybe you were told to be strong, but never taught that strength also means being soft when your partner needs you.
It's time to change that. It’s time to re-learn intimacy—not the kind that only touches the body, but the kind that touches the soul. Your woman doesn’t just want your presence in the room, she wants to feel your presence in her heart.
Heal yourself so that the women in your life don’t have to carry your wounds. Break the cycle. Be the man who learns to love with his whole heart. Not just through words, but through presence, patience, and deep emotional responsibility. Your healing is not just for you—it’s a gift you give to your partner, your children, and generations to come.
