01/08/2026
Studies show that 1 in 2 Native American women have experienced stalking in their lifetime. That number alone should stop us. But what makes it even more dangerous is how invisible stalking often is. It is dismissed as โharassment,โ minimized as โdrama,โ or ignored until it escalates into violence. Stalking is a precursor to domestic violence, s*xual assault, and homicide โ yet resources remain painfully limited.
Just as there are little to no domestic violence, s*xual assault, or human trafficking safe-house shelters in or near many tribal communities, there is also a huge unmet demand for stalking-specific resources. Survivors are often left to navigate fear, surveillance, intimidation, and psychological harm on their own โ without culturally safe support, legal advocacy, or prevention programs rooted in our communities.
We also need to name a hard truth: some stalking and harassment comes from within our own communities. Lateral violence โ harm directed at one another as a result of unresolved trauma, colonization, and systemic oppression โ is real. When it goes unaddressed, it can show up as harassment, stalking, intimidation, and coordinated harm, sometimes even between Native women. Naming this is not about blame. It is about healing what was never meant to be normalized.
Colonization disrupted our systems of care, accountability, and protection. It fractured relationships and taught survival through silence. But silence does not keep us safe โ community care does. Healing requires resources, education, accountability, and culturally grounded prevention led by Native people themselves.
Stalking is not โless seriousโ because it doesnโt leave bruises. It leaves fear. Hypervigilance. Isolation. And lasting trauma. Our people deserve safety, dignity, and support โ before harm escalates.
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