07/27/2025
My journey in concealed carry - Part 4 – carry position
It is truly an exercise in trial and error with holsters. To start with, where are you going to carry the firearm on your body, i.e., the carry position? I’ll focus on concealed carry because that’s the theme of this series, but the first step is to figure out where on your body (or not) to carry the firearm is the first step in picking out a holster. This wasn’t clear to me to begin with, so I didn’t put much thought into my carry position other than what feels most comfortable. I know better now.
Generally, carrying will NOT be comfortable unless it’s OWB or off-body, but I’ll get to that later. You need to just figure out what’s the most practical AND effective carry position, then experiment to find what’s the most comfortable way to carry. Yes, in that order.
The carry “position” depends—again—on YOU. Most carry in a holster attached to their belt. That means you’re going to need a belt that is up to the task. More on that in the “clothing” post near the end of this series. For those carrying a purse or bag, will you have the firearm inside that?
If you’ll have a holster attached to your belt, will your holster be inside the waistband or outside the waistband? IWB and OWB, respectively.
- - An IWB holster will have your holster between the waist of your pants/shorts and your body. The holster will be right up against you so think about what you may want touching your skin when you’re buying a holster. No matter what, IWB carry is NOT comfortable. It’s hard to get used to tit because it’s so unfamiliar and that discomfort makes it difficult to do carry consistently. You will need to get used to it until it’s just “normal” for you, and as comfortable as possible. Only YOU can determine what’s comfortable for you and what isn’t. I did NOT like IWB, and it still greatly depends on the combination of firearm, holster, and clothes I’m wearing.
- - OWB holsters are far more comfortable because they aren’t tucked inside your pants, BUT they will print more than an IWB holster. If your shirt drifts up, there’s also a greater possibility that your holster—or even firearm—will be plainly visible. You may also discover that it gets in the way more and you might hit it on things. You could easily put holes in the garment worn over the gun/holster from those accidental catches or scrapes. I really like OWB for the comfort factor, but I have certainly put holes in a few shirts. Shirts I really liked! Grrrrr.
- - Off-body means you’re carrying the firearm in something that is not attached to you, e.g., a bag, purse, or something you can carry with you but it isn’t under-or-in the clothes you’re wearing; something that is not securely attached to you. I can’t imagine for ME that off-body would be a good idea. There are “concealed carry purses” but… I don’t carry a purse, and I wouldn’t carry off-body anyway.
The following link has a really nice guide on concealed carry positions. https://concealedcarrysociety.com/concealed-carry-positions/
I narrowed down the options to the following list of popular/common IWB carry positions: small of the back (SOB), appendix, and hip (side):
- - Small of the back (SOB) carry – Behind you; usually at the base of your spine. You’ll have to reach back behind you to draw the firearm. But what if you’re sitting down, laying down, or back up against a wall? How feasible is this in terms of printing, comfort, or access to your firearm (whether it’s obstructed or due to your own flexibility)? This was my choice until I got more training and realized how impractical that can be.
- - Appendix – Basically, down the front of your pants. I definitely see how it’s a great way to carry… IF you don’t have a big ol’ gut, like me, OR if you ever plan to sit down. I know people do, even with a gut, but I just can’t even comprehend it. Lifting my gut out of the way to access the firearm or having it dig into me so hard if I’m sitting down? No thanks. NOT for me. If I could though, it seems the easiest way to lift up the shirt, access the firearm, and draw.
- - Hip/Side carry – Think cowboys drawing a pistol at their side. This is great for me, either IWB or OWB, but IWB tends to be the best combination of practicality, compatibility, comfort, and concealability. Either way, my biggest problem is pulling up my shirt. I have to pull it WAY high, or try to reach across my body to that side as far as I can, or both, to make sure my shirt clears the firearm so I can draw it.
Again, the selection is very personal and I started with SOB. After realizing how limiting and slow it is compared to side carry, I changed. But that also meant I needed to start my holster selection all over again. You may have to do the same thing because your first choice may not be what works best for you after you’ve had more experience.
Carrying a concealed weapon is a step in the right direction in making you and your family safer, but being able to actually draw it is even more important. For this reason, testing out the different concealed carry positions is extremely important.