Brown's Funeral & Cremation Service - Broken Arrow

12/26/2025

Kathy Lynn Rambo

Kathy Lynn Rambo, age 50, of Tulsa, OK, passed away on Thursday, December 18, 2025, at her home in Tulsa, OK. She was born on April 13, 1975, in Wichita, KS to Larry Don and Linda Marie (Stucker) Rambo.

Kathy's early life in Wichita laid the foundation for her caring personality and artistic talents. She carried these traits with her to Northeastern State University, where she furthered her education. Kathy's professional journey led her to St. Francis Hospital, where she dedicated several years as a heart monitor technician.

Beyond her professional accomplishments, Kathy was a woman of many passions. She found joy in the simple pleasure of shopping, turning thrift shopping into treasure hunts that delighted her and those she loved. Her artistic soul found expression in various forms, and she had a special place in her heart for animals, with cats holding a particularly dear spot.

Kathy's love for her daughters, Mia and Allyssa, was a defining aspect of her life. The cherished moments spent baking together became treasured memories; each visit from Mia often concluded with sweet treats crafted in the warmth of their bond. Kathy's thoughtfulness extended beyond baking; even when resources were scarce, she made it a priority to ensure Mia and Allyssa had what they needed, often saving something special for them until they could reunite.

She is survived by her daughters, Mia Lamberson and Allyssa Ratzlaff; her sister, Kelley Rambo; and her nephews, Isaac and Ian Nickerson.

Kathy was preceded in death by her parents, Larry and Linda Rambo, and her son, Tristan.

A private family service will be held to celebrate Kathy's life.

Family and friends are invited to share their memories of Kathy online at www.brownfamilycares.com. Kathy's family has entrusted her care and cremation to Brown's Funeral & Cremation Service, 231 E. Commercial St., Broken Arrow, OK 74012, 918-251-5331.

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12/25/2025

From our family to yours, Merry Christmas. 🎄❤️
This season reminds us of the precious gift of family, the comfort of faith, and the hope that love brings, especially to those who are missing someone this year. To every family we have been honored to serve, please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. We are praying that God brings you peace, comfort, and strength this Christmas season.

Thank you for allowing our family to care for yours.

Love,
The Brown Family

12/16/2025

Lorraine Betty Bylsma

Lorraine Betty Bylsma, a beloved resident of Broken Arrow, Oklahoma, passed away on Friday, December 12, 2025, at the Forest Hills Care & Rehab Center. She was born on March 7, 1929, in Muskegon, Michigan, as the only child of Andrew and Dena (Keur) Thedorff. Lorraine's life journey began in a small town where she would lay down the foundations for a life filled with faith, love, and family.

A devoted student, Lorraine attended Hope College, where she would meet Harold (Harry) Bylsma, her partner in life for 56 years. Together, they became founding members of the Midland Reformed Church in Midland, Michigan, a testament to their strong commitment to community and faith. Lorraine's entrepreneurial spirit shone through as she and Harry opened the Pathway Christian Bookstore, which served as a beacon for many within the community.

The couple later navigated various chapters of life in Eustis, Florida, and Edwardsburg, Michigan, before Lorraine made the heartfelt move to Oklahoma in 2019 to be closer to family. It was here that she found solace and warmth surrounded by her loved ones until the end of her earthly journey.

As a mother, Lorraine instilled in her daughters a deep sense of faith and a love for the Lord. She is survived by her three daughters: Linda (John) Kennett of Midland, Michigan, Ruth (Jeff) Parker of Broken Arrow, Oklahoma, and Luann Thibodeau of Broken Arrow, Oklahoma. Lorraine embraced her role as a grandmother to six grandchildren and a cherished great-grandmother to eight great-grandchildren, leaving behind a legacy of love that will resonate through generations.

Lorraine's husband, Harry, and her son-in-law, Jeff Thibodeau, preceded her in death, both of whom hold a special place in her heart and are now reunited with her in the embrace of eternity. Throughout her life, Lorraine was not only known for her unwavering faith but also for her remarkable talents in needlework and sewing. Her heartfelt dedication to her craft was only surpassed by her deep love for Jesus, a relationship that blossomed as she diligently studied the Bible with Bible Study Fellowship (BSF).

Lorraine is now at home in heaven, safe and embraced by the warmth of her faith and the love of her family.

While no services are planned, family and friends are invited to celebrate her memory and share their fond recollections online at www.brownfamilycares.com. Lorraine's family has entrusted her care and cremation to Brown's Funeral & Cremation Service, 231 E. Commercial St., Broken Arrow, OK 74012, 918-251-5331.

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12/16/2025

We enjoyed celebrating our Brown Funeral Home staff last night with our staff Christmas party. We are grateful for this amazing team and the dedication they bring year around. The high-quality and compassionate services we provide wouldn’t be possible without them. We are thankful for all of the families that we have had the ability to serve in 2025. Our prayer is that God carries you through this holiday season with great peace and that He blesses you immensely in the year to come. Merry Christmas. 🙏🏼

12/05/2025

✨ She’s finally here. ✨

Just arrived at Brown’s Funeral & Cremation Service – our 1932 Rosewood Prinzing hearse.

This one-of-a-kind vintage coach brings back a time when every detail was crafted by hand, and dignity and elegance were at the center of every farewell.

We’re honored to share this beautiful piece of history with the families and community we serve here in Coweta, Broken Arrow, and surrounding communities.

❤️ If you love classic cars – or just appreciate timeless tradition – tap the heart, share this post, and let us know what you think of our newest addition.

11/27/2025

🧡 A Thanksgiving Message From Brown Funeral Home 🧡

On this Thanksgiving Day, we want to pause and express something simple, yet deeply sincere: thank you.

Thank you for the trust you place in us during life’s tender moments. And thank you for allowing our family to serve yours with dignity, compassion, and unwavering care.

This community has been the heart of Brown’s for more than a century, and every hug, handshake, and shared story reminds us why we do what we do.

As you gather today, whether surrounded by a full table or holding close the memory of someone who isn’t here, may you feel peace, gratitude, and the warmth of those you love.

From our hearts to yours,
Happy Thanksgiving.
🧡🍂

Love,
The Brown Familyl

11/14/2025

Concetta Ann Okerstrom

Concetta Ann Okerstrom (Ruggiero), age 82, passed from the loving arms of her family into her Heavenly home with her Lord Jesus Christ on November 9, 2025, in Claremore, Oklahoma.

Concetta, (Chetta or Chett as she was known by many) was born November 18, 1942, in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania to John and Grace Ruggiero. Concetta was the oldest of seven siblings.

Concetta graduated from Saint Monica Goretti High School in 1960. In 1962, she married Tom Van Horne and moved to San Diego, California and then settled in Joliet, Illinois where they started their family. After many years in Illinois, she moved to Florida where she worked for the Department of Transportation and took a job working on the bridges connecting the island to the mainland… until the department found out she was working on the bridges but couldn’t swim and quickly went into the clerical field. She eventually settled again in Broken Arrow, Oklahoma where she remained and married Gordon Okerstrom later in life.

Concetta loved to spend time with her family and was always involved with church ministry to some capacity. She always had to be busy doing something and helping others any way she could. She was often referred to as the Energizer Bunny because not much kept her down very long and she was always going and going.

Concetta is survived by her son, Tom Van Horne of Morris, Illinois, her daughter, Lisa Ossman and husband Ken of Muskogee, Oklahoma, six grandchildren, Brier Costenaro and husband Zane, Brooke Raimoundi and husband Mauro, Bailey Kelly and husband Gavin, Hiliary Ossman, Alison O’Bryan and husband Nate, and Ben Ossman and wife Hannah, four great grandchildren, Logan Ossman, Ezra Ossman, Avery O’Bryan, and Oliviero “Oli” Raimoundi, her sister, Jackie O’Keefe and husband Jim, her sister, Grace McBride, her brother, Michael Ruggiero and wife Anna, and her sister, Carol Pandola and husband Al.

Concetta was preceded in death by her parents, John Ruggiero and Grace (Palmer) Ruggiero, her sister, Patricia DeMayo, her brother, John Ruggiero, and her husband, Gordon Okerstrom.

Visitation will be from 4:00 – 6:00 PM on Monday, November 17, 2025, at Brown Funeral Home in Broken Arrow, Oklahoma. Services celebrating Concetta’s life will be at 1:00 PM on Tuesday, November 18, 2025, at Brown Funeral Home Chapel in Broken Arrow, Oklahoma. She will be laid to rest at Fort Gibson National Cemetery in Fort Gibson, Oklahoma.

Family and friends are invited to share memories online at www.brownfamilycares.com. The family of Concetta Ann Okerstrom entrusted her care and services to Brown Funeral Home & Cremations, 231 E. Commercial St., Broken Arrow, Oklahoma 74012, 918-251-5331.

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11/13/2025

Rebbecca "Becky" Rae Kincaid

Rebbecca Rae Kincaid, affectionately known as Becky to her friends and family, passed away peacefully on Thursday, November 6, 2025, at St. Francis Hospital in Tulsa, OK. She was born on January 18, 1952, in Hillsboro, OH. Becky's warmth and kindness touched the lives of all who knew her throughout her 73 years.

Becky's journey began as the cherished daughter of her late parents, Charles Tennyson and Jessie Lee (Day) Kreisher, whose guidance and love shaped her into the remarkable woman she became. She carried their legacy forward with grace and dedication, touching many lives along the way. Becky's educational pursuits led her to Oklahoma University, where she graduated in 1973 with a Bachelor's degree in Education. Her passion for helping others propelled her to further her studies at Northeastern State University, where she earned a Master's degree in Counseling.

Professionally, Becky was a respected educator in Sulphur, LA, before finding her true calling as a counselor at Union Public Schools in Tulsa, OK. For 16 years, she provided guidance and support to countless students, helping them navigate the complexities of life with empathy and wisdom. Her colleagues and students alike will remember her for her unwavering commitment to their well-being.

Becky's personal life was filled with joy and companionship when she married the love of her life, John Kincaid, on June 17, 2006. Together, they built a life in Broken Arrow, OK. Becky's intellectual curiosity was often channeled into her love for crossword puzzles, a hobby in which she excelled and found great pleasure.

Her melodious voice found a home with the Tulsa Metro Sound, where she was an active member and a Sweet Adeline. Singing brought Becky immense happiness, and she cherished the camaraderie and harmony she shared with her fellow chorus members.

Becky's legacy is carried on by her devoted husband, John Kincaid of Broken Arrow, OK; her son, Scott Pollard and his wife, Allison of Coweta, OK; her grandsons, Anthony and Andrew Pollard; her sister, Vivian Luster of Muskogee, OK; her brother, Bill Sowders and his partner, Pete Matthews of Cambridge, MA; her nieces, Ashley Luster, Jessie Luster, and Connie Grant along with her husband, Clay; and a host of other relatives who will continue to honor her memory.

Her legacy of love, learning, and laughter will live on in the hearts of all who were fortunate enough to know her.

Visitation for Becky will be held from 10:00 - 11:00 AM on Saturday, November 15, 2025, with a service to celebrate her life beginning at 11:00 AM at Brown Funeral Home Chapel in Broken Arrow, OK. She will be laid to rest at Park Grove Cemetery in Broken Arrow, OK.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in memory of Becky to the Arthritis Foundation, www.arthritis.org.

Family and friends are invited to share memories and condolences online at www.brownfamilycares.com. Becky's family has entrusted her care and services to Brown Funeral Home & Cremations, 231 E. Commercial St., Broken Arrow, OK 74012, 918-251-5331.

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11/11/2025

On this Veterans Day, we pause to remember and thank all those who have served—especially the heroes in our community.

Your courage, devotion, and sacrifice will never be forgotten.

From all of us at Brown Funeral Home & Cremations — thank you for your service. 🇺🇸

11/02/2025

Karen Joyce Railey

Karen Joyce (Strong) Railey, passed away on October 29, 2025, and is now in the presence of her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ; leaving her body behind to be with Him in eternity.

Born October 4, 1944, in Omaha, Nebraska, to Raymond C. and Joyce I. (Petersen) Strong, she is the mother of Don Stahurski, Connie McKenzie, Patrick McKenzie, and Kathryn (McKenzie) Graham; grandmother to 8, great-grandmother to 11.

Married to her husband Brian in 1987, Karen worked in the semi-conductor industry around the “Silicon Valley” area of California, holding various positions in the Integrated Circuit manufacturing industry at such places as Ford Aerospace in Palo Alto, where she worked as a Thick Film Screen Printer. Other tasks she performed while working in the industry were die attaching and gold wire bonding, to name just two.

Karen left the industry after a brief illness to study nutrition from a holistic perspective, and on April 25, 2001, after earning a number of related certifications, was awarded a Bachelor of Natural Health Sciences (B.S.) Degree in Nutrition.

Karen’s husband Brian retired from the Telecommunication industry in 2003, after which they relocated to the central states, settling first in Nebraska then moving to Oklahoma, where her husband continues to reside.

Karen is survived by her husband of 38 years, her sons Don and Patrick, her daughters Connie and Kathryn, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and a very special high school friend, Flossie Patterson.

A private family burial will be in Park Grove Cemetery in Broken Arrow, OK.

Family and friends may share memories online at www.brownfamilycares.com. Karen’s family entrusted her care and service to Brown Funeral Home & Cremations, 231 E. Commercial St., Broken Arrow, OK 74012, 918-251-5331.

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10/29/2025

Patricia Lea Benham

Patricia Lea Benham, a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and friend, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, October 14, 2025, at the age of 77. She was born on February 8, 1948, in Strang, Oklahoma, to Lawrence Stone and Vera Vernice Provence. Pat lived a life defined by love, strength, and creativity.

On September 3, 1965, she married the love of her life, Claude A. Benham, in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Together they shared 60 years of marriage, filled with devotion, laughter, and the joy of raising their daughter, Tori, born in 1966. Pat graduated from Copan High School in 1967 and remained deeply proud of her Oklahoma roots.

Pat worked in a variety of positions throughout her life. She began her career in the medical field, where she cared for others with compassion and dedication. Later, she transitioned into the insurance and banking industries, where she built lasting relationships and earned the respect of colleagues and clients alike. No matter the role, Pat brought kindness, integrity, and a strong work ethic.

From her youth, Pat had a passion for sports. She played basketball and softball and later became an enthusiastic fan—especially of football and her beloved Oklahoma Sooners Softball team. Her competitive spirit and loyalty never wavered.

Pat also had a gift for creativity. She poured love into her crafting, making afghans and quilts that brought warmth and beauty to the homes of her family and friends. These treasured pieces remain as lasting symbols of her care and generosity.

She was preceded in death by her parents; four siblings; two brothers-in-law; and her precious great-granddaughter, Emma Rose Nicholson.

Those left to honor her memory include her husband of 60 years, Claude; her daughter, Tori Benham Nicholson (Patrick Milligan); her grandchildren, Austin Nicholson (Audrey) and Grace Benham (Peyton Messick); her great grandson, Austin Nicholson Jr., who was the joy of her last years; her sister, Janis Wilson; her brother, Richie Provence; and many extended family members and dear friends.

Pat will be remembered for her fierce devotion to family, her playful sense of humor, and her generous heart. She leaves behind a legacy of kindness, resilience, and love that will be carried on by all who knew her.

A memorial service celebrating Pat’s life will be held at 11:00 AM on Wednesday, October 29, 2025, at St. James Church, 5050 E. 111th Street, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137.

In lieu of flowers, the family encourages friends to honor Pat’s memory by spending time with your loved ones, watching a ballgame, or crafting something beautiful. Memorial contributions may be made to Wetumka First Methodist Church, St. James Church, or The Humane Society in Pat’s honor.

Family and friends may share memories online at www.brownfamilycares.com. Pat’s family entrusted her care, cremation, and service to Brown Funeral Home & Cremations, 231 E. Commercial St., Broken Arrow, Oklahoma 74012, 918-251-5331.

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09/17/2025

Martha (Mathis) Todd

Martha (Mathis) Todd, age 92, resident of Broken Arrow, OK, passed away peacefully on Friday afternoon, September 5, 2025, at St. Francis Hospital in Tulsa, OK. She was born on August 18, 1933, in Enid, OK to Ollie Van and Anita (Gallagher) Mathis. Martha's life was a testament to her unwavering spirit and generous heart.

Martha's journey began in the small town of Garber, where she attended school and graduated from Garber High School. Her early years were filled with the simple joys of small-town life, which laid the foundation for the remarkable woman she would become. Martha's life was marked by her dedication to her family, her work, and her community. She balanced her roles with grace, working various jobs from babysitting to managing the fine jewelry department at Sanger Harris, and later serving as an attendance clerk at Cooper Elementary School before her well-deserved retirement.

Martha's life was one of connection and service. She met her beloved husband, Neal Kenneth Todd, in Garber, and they married on August 19, 1950. Together, they shared 57 years of love and companionship until Neal's passing. Martha's home was always a hub of activity, filled with the laughter of her children and their friends. She was the heart of her family, and her love extended beyond her family to include anyone in need. Her generosity knew no bounds, and she had a special place in her heart for animals, providing a loving home to many dogs and cats over the years.

A woman of faith, Martha was a member of Sheridan Avenue Christian Church in Tulsa, where she taught Sunday school and participated in various church activities. Her commitment to her faith was evident in the way she lived her life, always striving to help others and spread kindness wherever she went.

Martha's legacy is carried on by her daughter, Kathleen Veatch of Broken Arrow, OK; her grandchildren, Zac Veatch and wife Melissa of Yukon, OK, Rebecca Veatch of Broken Arrow, OK, and Will Veatch of Tulsa, OK; her great-granddaughter, Nova; her sister, Meredith Chapman and husband Jack of California; her daughter-in-law, Kay Todd of Tulsa, OK; her son-in-law, Mark Veatch of Broken Arrow, OK; her devoted caregiver, Tammy Baker; nephews, Mark Bohon and John Bohon; and special friends who were touched by her warmth and generosity.

Preceding her in death were her husband, Neal Kenneth Todd; her parents, Ollie and Anita Mathis; her sons, Robert Todd and Kenneth Todd; and her sister, Marilyn Bohon.

Her life story and the memories she created will forever be cherished, and her spirit will live on in the hearts of those she loved. Martha will be remembered not just for the life she lived, but for the love she gave so freely.

A memorial service celebrating Martha's life will be held at 2:00 PM on Friday, September 19, 2025, at Brown Funeral Home Chapel in Broken Arrow, OK, with Rev. Brody Morris officiating.

Family and friends may share memories online at www.brownfamilycares.com. Martha's family has entrusted her care, cremation, and service to Brown Funeral Home & Cremations, 231 E. Commercial St., Broken Arrow, OK 74012, 918-251-5331.

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