12/26/2025
If I ever stood face to face with my younger self, I’d stay silent.
Words would only get in the way. She’s heard enough words—empty promises, sharp criticisms, whispers that made her feel small. She doesn’t need more.
No speeches. No lessons.
She already learned the hard way. She already absorbed the world through bruised knees and a tender heart. Anything I could tell her, she’s already living. And she’s doing it with a courage she doesn’t yet recognize.
I’d wrap my arms around her and let her feel safe, even if only for a moment.
Let her shoulders drop. Let her breathe without guarding her heart. Let her be held without wondering what it will cost her. She deserved that then. She still does now.
That little girl carried more than she should have. She lived through pain that could have shattered most people.
But it didn’t shatter her. It sculpted her. Carved out depths where empathy now lives. Hardened places into strength. Left scars that she would later learn to speak through.
And yet, she kept her heart. She kept her strength.
She didn’t turn cold. She didn’t become cruel. However quietly, however fiercely—she loved anyway. She hoped anyway. She showed up, again and again, even when showing up felt like walking into the wind.
She grew into someone resilient, compassionate, and real.
Not perfect. Not untouched. But true. A woman who knows how to hold space for others because she once needed someone to hold it for her. A woman who recognizes strength because she had to dig for her own.
And that alone makes everything she survived mean something.
It wasn’t for nothing. It was for her. For the person she became.
And if I could, I’d tell her without saying a word—that I am proud to be her future.
That she was worth every hard day.
That she still is.