Living in the 3rd Degree with BPD

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This is the page to my podcast "Living in the 3rd degree with BPD" based on the difficulties of living and dealing with (borderline personality disorder) True experiences of dealing with the difficulties of BPD

06/03/2025

PODCAST EPISODE SUGGESTIONS.....

As you all know I have a podcast called living in the third degree with BPD...
I used to get requests on episode topics from my listeners but lately in the past 6 months I have not received any requests and I would like to ask anybody if there is a topic you would like me to produce a podcast about.
Are there certain situations that you are trying to get information or suggestions about?
I have been in many situations over the past 38 years by having my wife diagnosed with BPD since 2012 so there was probably almost nothing I have not experienced that I'm sure you would like to hear about and I would like for you to offer comments or suggestions of an episode that I could produce that might answer your question or help you with a situation by listening to what I have experienced and what I have done to overcome that situation as well.
You can leave a comment and I will respond as well about an episode suggestion please and thank you....

06/03/2025

I want to thank everybody who is visited my site which is dedicated to both sides of borderline personality disorder the people who suffer from it and the loved ones who try to deal with the effects in their lives.
I hope everybody has listened to my podcast which you can find easily by going on Google and typing in "living in the third degree podcast"
It will show up on all major podcast platforms like iHeart and apple podcast.
You'll hear about many of my experiences dealing with my wife who has been in my life for 38 years who has borderline personality disorder since 2012 I share stories and suggestions and allow people to relate and maybe use some of my suggestions in their own lives and experiences.

I invite anybody who has borderline personality disorder or anybody who has somebody in their life who has BPD to please listen to my podcast I believe it will help significantly according to many comments I have received and emails saying how I have helped change their lives by seeing how I can deal with this disorder the 38 years and still stick around and deal with abuse and the horrific instances on a common basis!

I hope anybody who has BPD has honestly learned if you disorder and needs to be dealt with professionally with medication and counseling but the most work that can be positive is within the person themselves by understanding the torment they cause the hurt they cause the things they say that are offensive and hurtful and yes that it is mentally abusive and if they can control their disorder it would help them significantly by allowing them to be loved and accepted as a normal person rather than pushing people away which BPD makes them do but it's more so the hurtful things they say that almost can never be taken back and it's like a broken record they will strip your pride take away your self-confidence make you feel worthless and they have no sorrow for it and they will not say sorry because sorrow admits fault and they don't feel there at all they don't know how to control their behavior they don't know how to control their emotions feel like if I work on the ground spinning and flailing out of control with no care or worrying about the effects!

You can't just say I take my medicine I did my counseling I did my job you have to honestly accept the proper treatment and use the tools to enable you to step back and pause before saying hurtful things allow yourself to be rational to be able to close your mouth and actually listen to the other person not cut them off and be the star of the show say what you want and not allow the other person to speak and not allow them to defend themselves it can't be a one-sided argument and you have to accept fault when you're at fault don't use the old do as I say not as I do I'm right you're wrong I make the rules and you need to follow them I don't need to follow them because I make the rules!!!!!

10/13/2024

IMPORTANT QUESTION...
HELLO! This is a question from Brad, the producer and creator of the podcast, LIVING IN THE THIRD DEGREE WITH BPD... I'm the creator of this page as well ... I'm going to be doing a new podcast episode on the subject of my following question and I'd like some input that I can use and announce in my podcast, so please respond with your opinions, answers and answers, Thank You ...

IF YOUD LIKE TO CHECK OUT MY PODCAST, you can simply go on google and type in the name of my podcast and you will get a long list of where you can hear my podcast including large apps like: Apple podcasts, iheart radio and podcast, Spotify and much much more! Be sure to listen to any or all of my over 80 episodes all about living with someone who has BPD and my experience with being with a person for over 37 years, I have a lot to discuss ... Thank you!

NOW ABOUT MY QUESTION AND CONTENT FIR MY NEXT PODCAST EPISODE ..

Do YOU have BPD Or, are you the person WITHOUT BOD.... To the person with BPD:
Do you have dilutions thinking that your partner is having an affair? BUT NOT JUST THINKING ABOUT IT, do you really believe i and do you have details and believe things like the other person is married? Have children? Drive a certain type and color vehicle? Have a certain color hair? The age? Where they live? The weight and height of the perso ? Do you really have thoughts about the details and tell your partner these details and argue about them?
Well my wife of 37 years who has BPD since 2012 and full blown episodes ever since will all of a sudden out of the blue all of a sudden say things like ... So your a sick man, to hurt me and run around my back??? Having a fu***ng relationship starting 3 months ago with some fat bitch with black hair and drives a black SUV???? Her husband will kill you when he finds out especially since they have 3 kids you sicco!!! And wonder why you go to Walmart so much, cause that's where she works!!! Oh I have all the proof! Of your Texts, I have pictures, to prove it, screen shots etc!!!!
And.... She will continue and fight, be cold to me, sleep on the couch, be mean and miserable, pack her s**t and say we are done and she is moving out!!!! And go back in the past even 20 years ago to make the fire even bigger!!!!
I try not to defend myself and just ignore her and let her ramble on and not say s**t back to her, but it's like trying not to itch a scratch!!!!
Then after 2 or 3 days she is holding my hand, kissing me, being normal and lovable LIKE NOTHING ECER HAPPENED OR WAS EVEN SAID!!!

I did try a new method: I'll respond with things like:
Well ifyou believe and say this happened 3 months ago, why the hell are you lovable, hold my hand in public, make love to me if I'm such a disgusting cheating, loser liar? Why did it not bother you in the 3 months??? Why all of a sudden do you feel the need to bring it up????
If it were me, hell I sure would bring it up as soon as I found out! I'd sure as hell not be lovable, hold your hand, kiss you and definitely not have s*x with you, that's all for sure and definitely not bring it up and confront you fight about it, threatening to leave and then forget it ever happened!!!!
If that's the case who really is the suck one? I'd definitely think I'd need help and even sicker to have s*x with you knowing your having s*x with another man!!!!

It usually works most of the time, especially when I act serious like it's all true, yes I joke about my saying if it were me, but act serious! It leaves her with nothing to say!!!
I've even gone to extremes and tried this tactic:
Well dear, put it this way, youve know for 3 months, I know you known about it yet you still act lovable and lead alone like it's not happening and you even let me have s*x with you, so why would I stop the other affair when most of the time it doesn't bother you??? So who is the sick one? The one with the affair or the one who knows yet lives like it never happens?
I've tried similar tactics like that and it catches her off guard and doesn't know what to say! She will not continue with the argument out of stupidity and embarrassment and still be cold for 2 or 3 days yet no fighting are arguing and after 2 or 3 days it's back to normal!!!

So, since I can't control the episode, I found a way to sizzle the fire of fighting until she comes back to reality

MY QUESTION TO YOU IS ... What are your thoughts from the side of the person with BPD as well as from the person WITHOUT BPD?
Do you think my tactics are ok if it has the results that I'm getting? Do you think it's damaging to the person with BPD?
WHAT ARE YOUR HONEST THOUGHTS AND OR OPINIONS?

THANK YOU ...

I had such a good time bowling!
07/20/2024

I had such a good time bowling!

07/14/2024

Episode 82 has now been posted on July 14th 2024!!!!
It's called "Houston we have a problem!"
The subject is based around women who have hallucinations and then use that hallucination to start an argument which I feel is one step above a delusion hallucination is when they actually think it and believe it actually happened or in this case was it just a story to be made up for a way to outlet an episode?
You decide and if you have any questions you can always send me an email but I hope you listen to this episode and I hope it helps!
-Brad

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