Paloma Schultz - Constella

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Paloma Schultz - Constella

Family Constellation Facilitator - individual, couples and groups/ On line sessions

- Reiki Master
- Access Bars Facilitator

07/03/2023

Too many people, myself included, stay longer in relationships that have already ended for the sake of the kids

The understanding that despite the separation, divorce, and new relationships you will always be together as co-parents is what matters.

Your child is part of you both. Inside her, you’re together, and for her you must be supporting and loving her, even if the marriage is over.

06/26/2023

And yes, YOU may find a solution, a movement, a better place for that pain, the feeling, or that person.

But as with any other modality, it isnt magical, and the answer and the choices will always be with you.

06/25/2023

What a day! .constellations event was incredible!

I’m so grateful to be able to witness her work, learn and work on myself for those past 4 years with this brilliant Mentor

And to be all day in person after 3 years was a beautiful gift

Also so special to see again my colleagues and to meet in person friends that I had since begging of quarantine and have shared so many hours on zoom together ❤️❤️❤️

06/21/2023

No, they don't.

Your parents are bigger. They came first and had a whole life before you arrived. So you must be able to see that and give them the force they have.

Often parents demand from their kids a lot after becoming adults, which can be tasks, attention, or specific things they need to do to pay back so much they have done.

What is happening is that they are trying to get what their parents didn't give them. They should look back or inside for this resource, not at their children.

When you give too much to your parents and feel like they need you, you are probably out of place in your Family System, parenting them, leaving your spot empty, and in case you have a child not caring for who needs care.

And lately, as you are looking back, you can't move forward to your life and goals.

If this is your case, a Family Constellation Session can help you to do a different movement. Sometimes knowing the issue isn't enough, and feeling in your body can help you to make a different choice.

06/20/2023

A great example is that person that sees someone crying and rushes to get the tissue. They can't stand another person crying, so they want to stop them asap.

So many parents do that with their child, even teachers. Instead of help kids to cope with emotions they just want to shut them down. “Stop crying, you’re such a big kid don’t cry, big boys don’t cry” and so on.

Yes, kids and adults are allowed to feel and show emotions (in a healthy way) and if this bothers you check with yourself why instead of run to get the tissue.

06/15/2023

I wrote this three years ago, was good to be reminded. All this it’s me

As a child, I used to do ballet, played soccer, tried to surf, skated, trained boxing, and played tennis until I found Jiu-jitsu. I've been training for 19 years and teaching for eight years

Baptized in the Catholic Church, I made my first communion, I studied in catholic school, I worked in a Kardecista Center in a Umbanda Temple, and I became a Reiki Master. In Miami, I attended Kabbalah, and today I consider myself a Spiritualist

I dated Mauricio, Felipe, Guilherme, Eduardo, Thiago, Wagner, Ian, Ben, and Rob, and today I’m separated.

I was born in Porto Alegre, lived in Rio, Miami, Queens, Brooklyn, Manhattan, and New Jersey, and now I’m in Brooklyn.

Friends are super important to me
BJJ it my passion
Nature my refuge
Books an addiction
Animals are a blessing
My mother is my haven
Male figure, my grandfather
My great pain it is to have an absent and aggressive father, memories, and traumas that I work to this day
My great joy, Chloe, my daughter
A great achievement is my black belt in BJJ
Something I did that I never imagined, moving alone to another country
A dream, having my studio to teach and work with therapies

Recognizing where I come from and where I've been helps me to move towards my goals

Order, belonging, and acknowledging what it is, are some principles that guide Family Constellations

Here I told you a little about me

How about you?
How do you belong?
Who, what came before?
Do you give them a place?
What's your pain?
What moves you?
What are your fundamental values?

Constellation changed my life and keeps changing, answer with a YES if you want to start the change in your life ✨✨✨

06/12/2023

Those are just a few of the benefits you can have in a individual or group constellation

But I always say, to really understand you need to experience.

06/07/2023

❤️

06/06/2023

According to , these are the situations that block you, that make you stay in place, fail to succeed, have problems in relationships and other situations that can be understood as not moving towards life.

It's unconscious dynamics, invisible loyalties, it's not math. But there's a good chance it's all related.

Constellation and Genogram can help identify and integrate what paralyzes you.

Can you identify yourself in any of those cases?

06/05/2023

It is time to let go of the belief that you “should stay together for the kids.”

Nobody should stay In an unhappy relationship for any reason, and to put this weight on your kids, it’s super unfair. Even not saying, lately you will want the payback for all that happened, even if they didn’t ask for anything.

So be aware of how much your relationship affects them for the good and the bad, making better decisions.

#911

05/08/2023

Our parents and siblings may often invite us to leave our place, but it is our choice if we will do.

If you can relate to this story, a family constellation session can help you do a different movement and feeling in your body; you may be able to do the necessary changes in your life.

Message me to know more

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