
07/08/2025
I Didn’t Know How to Slow Down 💔
When I lost my mom, and later other loved ones, I never really gave myself time to grieve.
Maybe you’ve done the same—after a move, a diagnosis, a job loss, a relationship that shifted.
Grief doesn’t always come wrapped in a funeral.
Sometimes it shows up in the little things that quietly break your heart.
I kept going.
I stayed busy.
I told myself, “I’m fine.”
Because stopping to feel it all? That felt harder.
But I’ve started to wonder… how much did pushing through all those hard seasons affect my health?
➡️ Chronic stress and unprocessed grief can take a real toll on our bodies:
Disrupted sleep
Digestive issues
Increased inflammation
Brain fog
Hormone imbalances
And deep, lasting fatigue
I didn’t begin to really grieve until a few years ago, when a close friend passed away. For the first time, I didn’t push it down. I let myself feel the sadness and the loss. I slowed down. And I truly believe that’s part of why I’m healing now.
So if you're walking through something hard—or holding on to grief from years ago—here are 3 simple ways to support your body as you gently move through it:
💧 Sip water often. Stress dehydrates the body and brain. A few steady sips every hour can help with energy and clarity.
🧘♀️ Breathe deeply. Your breath tells your nervous system whether you’re safe. Try a few slow, intentional breaths when things feel heavy.
🚶♀️ Move gently. A walk. Light stretching. Sitting outside. Movement helps emotions move through your body, not get stuck in it.
Be kind to yourself.
There’s no right timeline for grief—and no shame in finally letting go of what you've held onto for years.
I see you.
And I’m walking this healing path too. 💛