Emotional Polarity Technique™ - Specialty therapy for children and their families.
An alternative to traditional talk therapy and conventional medical drug therapy. Jolisa Clare Holistic Foundations offers EPT- Emotional Polarity Technique - accelerated coaching and wellness opportunities to men, women, and children pursuing a holistic approach to life and wellness. Emotional Polarity Technique, Clinical Kinesiology, Advanced Laser Alignment and healthy products are effective, versatile tools for detecting and correcting imbalances in the body’s energy system. Imbalances related to stress, divorce, addiction abuse, allergies, nutritional deficiencies- sensitivities, pain, anxiety, moving forward or some other cause preventing a person from achieving their best self. JCHF services are compatible with other health systems and therapies including traditional medicine as well as other holistic services.
11/15/2025
The Healing Power of Gratitude
Gratitude is more than a word — it’s a healing frequency. 🌿
Every breath of thanks tells your body, “It’s safe to keep what is good.”
Every moment of forgiveness whispers, “I am free to receive.”
Try this simple breath practice today:
🌸 Inhale gratitude.
🌸 Exhale release.
🌸 Pause — feel peace settle into your body.
Take three slow breaths of gratitude right now.
Notice how your body softens when you choose to receive what’s already good.
🍂 What shifts in your body when you let gratitude, not fear, lead your next breath?
Abundance isn’t something you chase — it’s something you become. ✨
When your hormones, heart, and spirit align, peace flows naturally.
Your nervous system relaxes.
Your intuition clears.
Your body begins to trust that good things are safe to receive.
This is the spiritual harvest — not what you’ve earned, but what your soul is finally ready to receive.
Did you know your body can mistake peace for danger?
When we’ve lived in survival mode, our nervous system learns that control = safety.
Even love, rest, or abundance can trigger fear.
Because the brain (and hormones like cortisol and oxytocin) are still protecting us from an old story.
The good news? Your body can learn to feel safe again,
Through forgiveness, nervous system regulation, and spirit-led healing, we begin to retrain the body to receive calm instead of chaos.
November reminds us about the beauty of receiving. 🌿 This month, join us as we explore how to reconnect the nervous system and spirit for women who have navigated through survival mode. Uncover the paths to peace, love, and abundance in our latest blog!
Nature doesn’t question whether she’s worthy of her harvest — she simply allows it.
But for many women who’ve lived in survival mode, receiving can feel unsafe.
After years of doing, striving, and caring for everyone else, your body may not yet know what peace and rest feel like.
Healing isn’t about doing more — it’s about remembering that it’s safe to receive.
🌿 Read my newest blog “Harvesting Wholeness: How to Receive After a Lifetime of Survival” to learn how trauma, hormones, and spirit reconnect to create calm, abundance, and trust in your own body again.
October reminds us that nature receives without resistance. But for many women who have lived in survival mode, receiving peace, love, and abundance can feel unsafe. This blog explores how the nervous system, hormones, and spirit reconnect through Cross Reference Healing — guiding the body to feel...
10/31/2025
Forgiveness is one of the most powerful doorways to healing — yet it’s often the one we resist the most.
In trauma recovery, forgiveness isn’t about excusing what happened. It’s about freeing the body from carrying pain that no longer belongs to the present moment.
The following affirmations are sacred invitations — gentle openings to release emotional tension and reconnect with God, Spirit, or Divine Source.
Each one is meant to be read slowly, accompanied by mindful breathing to align body and spirit.
After each statement,
✨ Inhale through your nose, inviting divine light into your heart.
✨ Exhale through your mouth, releasing what no longer serves your peace.
✨ Pause briefly, feeling the statement integrate through your body before moving to the next one.
These pauses are where healing begins — where your body and Spirit meet in stillness.
Forgiveness Statements for Emotional Healing
1. I forgive myself for holding on so tightly because I was afraid to be hurt again.
My control was a form of protection — now I choose peace.
→ Inhale divine calm; exhale fear and release control.
Pause and feel your heart soften.
2. I forgive myself for abandoning my own needs to keep others comfortable.
I now honor the sacred balance between giving and receiving.
→ Breathe in compassion for yourself; breathe out obligation.
Let your body recognize safety in balance.
3. I forgive others for not protecting or valuing me the way I deserved.
Their limitations no longer define my capacity for love or safety.
→ Inhale divine understanding; exhale resentment.
Pause, noticing lightness in your shoulders.
Each breath helps your body associate forgiveness with calm instead of conflict. Cortisol lowers, oxytocin rises, and your nervous system begins to trust that peace is safe again.
Through Cross Reference Healing, I help women gently release these stored emotions, allowing their nervous systems to rediscover calm, connection, and safety.
You don’t have to hold it all anymore.
Forgiveness is the doorway — I’ll help you walk through it with grace.
Begin your healing journey with a 30-minute discovery call today.
1. I love and accept myself for surviving the only way I knew how.
My strength was born from necessity; my softness is born from healing.
→ Inhale gratitude for your strength; exhale gentleness.
Feel warmth spreading through your chest.
2. I love and accept myself as I soften into the calm that once felt unsafe.
It’s safe to live in peace now.
→ Inhale divine peace; exhale lingering fear.
Let your breath remind your body that stillness is home.
As you practice this, oxytocin and serotonin gently rise — the “safety and connection” chemicals that rewire the body’s association with rest, comfort, and belonging.
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EPT ™ - Emotional Polarity Technique ™ is a holistic emotional healthcare for adults and children. EPT™ has over 25 years of clinical success ending depression, anxiety and all manner of chronic physical pain and suffering. Offering up a brand new professional platform of healing that is totally unique and different, EPT™ uses the power of forgiveness to resolve adversity in life that causes sickness, chronic pain and difficult relationships.
I’m Jolisa Clare and it is my honor, gift and blessing to help children and their families let go of their pain, lay down their hopelessness, and move past their fear. Everyone, no matter your age or background, can benefit from EPT™ 7 sessions therapy.
My personal journey with EPT™ began in 2007 first as a client. I was aware that I had unhealthy pattern’s that permeated all aspect of my life. I had health issues, relationship issues, and desperately wanted to break these cycles. I tried the traditional path of counseling and depression medication. I immersed myself in church healing groups and tried numerous other holistic techniques but it just struck the surface.
When I found EPT™ I knew I had found something special and unique. Something that really worked and worked fast, I was no longer a victim or survivor. I had broken through the significant unhealthy patterns that had dictated my life.
As I was helped, I felt I had a desire and duty to help others. I know a lot about family dynamics; I am the oldest of six children, a mother, step mother and a mimi to seven grandchildren. While raising my family, I owned and operated a licensed day care. My experience with children and their parents gives me a unique relationship to the struggles families face. I understand the challenges parents experience both in their personal and professional lives.
My education in addition to Emotional Polarity Technique certifications include; Expert Level Life Coach certification, Clinical Kinesiology certification (muscle testing), Youth Mental Health First Aid USA certification – providing help to young people experiencing mental health problems such as depression, anxiety disorders, and substance use disorders.
EPT™ is truly the most empowering holistic therapy I have ever experienced. Have questions about EPT™ 7 sessions therapy? I would be happy to answer any questions you may have. Please call (765) 382-6996 for a complimentary consultation.
