01/15/2026
Obesity isn’t a character flaw. It’s not laziness. It’s not a lack of willpower.
Obesity is a chronic disease and like most diseases, it’s complex.
Hormones, genetics, metabolism, medications, stress, sleep, mental health, environment, trauma, food access all play a role. For many people, the body is literally fighting against weight loss by slowing metabolism and increasing hunger signals. That’s biology, not bad choices.
Telling someone to “just eat less and move more” is like telling someone with asthma to “just breathe harder.” It ignores the science and places blame where it doesn’t belong.
And here’s the important part. Having a disease does not define your worth. Seeking help does not mean you failed. Using tools like medication, therapy, lifestyle changes, or surgery is not cheating. It’s treatment.
We don’t shame people for treating diabetes or high blood pressure. Obesity deserves the same respect, understanding, and medical care.