09/09/2025
Lately, I have been feeling overwhelmed with pedestrian responsibilities, analytic training deadlines, and information and news overload. I craved respite, silence, time to replenish my soul and spirit in solitude. I craved time alone, time to think, time to be, and time to do nothing. At the urging of my soul, I booked myself a last minute room at a bed and breakfast in Spring Lake, NJ. I had never been to Spring Lake, but heard that it was peaceful and beautiful, and most importantly for me, offered a beach experience that was unfettered by boom boxes, a screaming boardwalk scene, and crowds of rowdy people. This magical place was just perfect. I sat on the beach for the entire afternoon watching the water and listening to the sound of the waves. I ate a hamburger on the boardwalk and fought off the throngs of seagulls that were fighting for my fries. There was no puppy to walk, no family members to feed, and for just one night I was unencumbered. My room was on the top floor of the inn, my sleigh bed tucked into a turret that was surrounded by four windows. By 5:00 p.m., I was in my pjs in the bed, as a thunderstorm rolled in. I wrote in my journal, I watched a new episode of Call the Midwife, (which is sacred medicine in and of itself) and was asleep by 9 p.m. I went to bed exhausted, depleted, and introverted, and I awoke refreshed, replenished, and ready to rejoin my chaotic world. It was just the exact medicine I needed - solitude, quietude, introspection, and a complete disconnection from the internet. If you are feeling lost, disconnected from yourself, or overwhelmed with input from the outside world, I gently urge you to consider giving yourself the gift of a night away. It doesn't have to be expensive or grand; just a simple place to be entirely alone with your soul.