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10/16/2025

A narcissistic man doesn’t just show up out of nowhere. He’s built out of a wound. A boy who was either rejected by his mother or worshipped until it warped him. If he was rejected, he grew up starving for approval. If he was idolized, he grew up addicted to control. Either way, he never learned what real love feels like.

The golden child, the one placed on the pedestal, learns early that love has conditions. Loved when he performs. Praised when he pleases. Rewarded when he obeys. But underneath, he’s suffocated. He grows into a man who craves dominance but resents the very power that controls him.

So when you meet him, it feels like love. He adores you, idolizes you, calls you perfect. But it isn’t love—it’s recognition. You remind him of the comfort and the chaos he’s always known. And just like that, you’re no longer his partner. You become his mirror.

That’s when the shift happens. Tenderness becomes criticism. Affection becomes control. Vulnerability becomes rage. He punishes you, not because you failed him, but because your presence forces him to feel the pain he’s been running from all his life. To him, love is a trap. Affection is weakness. Connection is danger.

This is why you end up walking on eggshells. This is why you keep trying to fix him. This is how you slip into the cycle—caretaker, healer, mother figure—while he turns cold, dismissive, and cruel. And the rage he’s carried toward her? It lands on you.

Here’s the part you need to hear. His pain might explain him, but it doesn’t excuse him. You cannot love the little boy inside a grown man who refuses to face himself. You can’t fix it. You can’t save him. That healing doesn’t come from your devotion. It only comes from his own self-awareness.

Until he confronts that wound, he will keep wounding women who try to love him. And if you’ve been there, you know exactly how true this is.

So remember this—he doesn’t love women, he feeds on them.

10/15/2025

The man or woman you choose to be your partner affects everything in your life. Your mental health, your peace of mind, how you get through difficulties, how your children will be raised and so much more.

The person you share your life with has the power to either build you up or slowly break you down. A loving partner can make you feel safe, supported, understood, while the wrong one can fill your days with stress, doubt, loneliness. That is why choosing wisely is one of the most important decisions you will ever make. When you are with someone who truly cares for you, even the hardest moments of life feel easier to handle. They stand beside you in your struggles and they don’t let you carry the weight alone. With the right partner, life’s storms do not seem as frightening, because you know you are not facing them by yourself.

The right person also affects your growth. They encourage your dreams, believe in your abilities, remind you of your worth when you forget it yourself. They give you the kind of love that does not cage you but instead helps you become a better version of yourself. Even the way your children grow up depends on this choice. A loving and respectful relationship creates a secure environment for them. And beyond family, this decision shapes the simple everyday moments of life. Who you wake up next to, who you share your meals with, who you tell your secrets to, who you dream with, all of these come down to the partner you choose.

In the end, love is not just about feelings. It is about choosing someone who brings peace to your heart, strength to your mind, balance to your life. The right partner becomes your safe place, your teammate, your home. 🤍

— Dorothea.
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