01/02/2026
COLLECTIVE READING: Take what resonates for your unique situations and leave the rest. For a deeper look at your personal relationship reach out via PM for a relationship reading! I offer several types of relationship readings be it astrology, struggling relationship reading, manifesting new love or a current relationship check-in!
Lessons in Love and Relationships Remember not all love is romantic. Take this as it resonates with YOUR situation, Lover, Friend, mom, Sister, etc
Themes: Balance- Keywords: Renew, Acknowledge, Compromise, Equality, Harmony, and Healing
Message: Balance is Important in all aspects of life, but it is especially important in relationships, both with others and yourself. This card suggests that you examine your relationships to see if they are truly in balance. A healthy relationship should include time to be together as well as time apart. Take some time in peaceful solitude to renew your acquaintance with yourself. Acknowledge what you bring to the relationship and what your partner brings to the relationship. Ensure that you both play an equal role and that no one person dominates. Compromise is required in order for a relationship to be harmonious. Be willing to give and receive. By finding a middle ground, you’ll help to ensure that your needs and the needs of your partner are met. Compromise also includes accepting that people are individuals with different personalities and ways of looking at the world. Embrace your differences; rejoice in your similarities. If you find yourself at odds, be willing to work through issues honestly and with love, confident that your differences can be resolved. This is an excellent time to help heal relationships where there has been much disagreements as of late and bring the relationship to better balance. If you are seeking a romantic relationship, balancing aspects of your own life will open the way up to new love. Also making sure that your relationships with family and friends are in balance will set the tone for the new romance that is on the way to you.
Affirmation with this Card: I embrace our differences and bring balance and healing to my relationships.
Your current Energies: 2 of wands with Ace of wands (page of wands, 3 of cups, 4 of cups) For those of you in relationships, there may be a desire for more passion and creativity in your life. Maybe you feel like you needs for connection and passion are being ignored. Maybe this is a new relationship and suddenly you are so engrossed in your new connection that you are ignoring your friends and isolating yourself in this love nest bubble you have created. For those that are single, putting yourself out there is love may be outside of your comfort zone. Maybe there is someone in your group of friends you have an eye on but feel it’s been a missed opportunity. Placements: Mars in Aries, Moon in Cancer, Mercury in Cancer.
Their Energies: Queen of Pentacles (the Fool, 2 of wands, 10 of cups) For those in relationships, this person seems to be focused on personal growth and self-mastery. Maybe this person a business owner, or a self-made man or woman in some way. This person is grounded, practical, and resourceful. They may show affection through practical support, maybe their love language is acts of service and yours is physical touch. Maybe they provide stability for you. However, they also have a choice. Maybe they have opportunities or creative projects taking off and they feel torn and feel like they have to choose between career and emotional fulfilment and family. It may be that their career, dreams and desires for new experiences and them chasing their own emotional fulfillment is drawing their attention away from you. For those that are single, You may be calling in a man or woman of business, a deeply grounded and generous practical individual but you must get out of your comfort zone to meet them. Some of you will meet them through a family member or out in the community in some way. Think of ways to get out there and meet someone with similar interests as yourself. Placements: Capricorn placements, Aries/Aquarius Placements, Mars in Aries, Mars in Pisces
Your Advice: The Tower (Hermit, Temperance, Ace of Swords), Justice, Judgement
It’s time to face the truth in your relationships. If there is a fundamental lack of compatibility, then it must be addressed. You could be delaying the inevitable and eventually the relationship will crumble anyway. If this is not the care for you it may be time to surrender the need to control your relationships. Stop expecting you from other people. Celebrate each others differences and keep your relationships fair. It may be time to wipe the slate clean and build a stringer relationship either with someone else or with this person. Its time to go deep within and seek answers internally. Maybe you are the type of person who loses themselves in a relationship and they become your entire life. Then when your partner has a life and friends it can feel like competition or scary to be left alone. Regardless it’s time to foster balance and bring truth to the situation. It’s time for a compassionate review of the relationship. Nobody has to be the enemy if your choose to walk away. For singles, its time to address the elephant in the room. If you haven’t met the one it may be because you are in Hermit mode and haven’t left the house since oct of last year. When was the last time you followed through on a date? Or are you so quick to see a red flag you immediately block or delete them from your reality without giving them a chance. You may need to do some more healing to clear that energy out. Have compassion for self but also hold yourself accountable for your own happiness.
Additional Messages: Some of you need to start following your own passions and stop expecting your partners to be as excited as you, they are YOUR passions. Let them support you in other ways. Some of you need to let go of the need to control and let things unfold naturally. Some of you need to actually tell the other person how you feel about them. Make the romantic gesture. Reach out for a conversation, you may be surprised
Oracle message: Kyanite: Resolving disputes, diplomacy, restoring harmony, mending fences, and building bridges. MESSAGE: You may be right and have the best idea in the room, but Kyanite Spirit is here to tell you that at this moment, you are being called to be the bigger person, the diplomat seeking to connect on a level of mutual understanding. There was a reason you wanted to connect with this person or people, and now you have the power to do so in a healthy way that honors both you AND them. They will learn from your modeling of diplomacy. You might be surprised how much more readily your wisdom is heard when you reach out with love first instead of logic. Mend fences and then watch how much easier it is to harmonize with each other. It’s possible you attracted a relationship where you are doing all the emotional work, and the other person takes and sucks up all of your energy. If so, kyanite reminds you that you can always say no and ends things if a balance cannot be reached. If this is your choice, know that it is ok to free yourself from conflict.
