Perna, Dengler, Roberts Funeral Home

05/09/2026

Mother’s Day can bring a mix of emotions when you’re missing your mom. Whether your loss is recent or years have passed, finding meaningful ways to honor her memory can bring comfort and connection. From writing a heartfelt card to setting a place at the table, visiting her resting place, helping another mother, or giving back in her honor—there are gentle ways to navigate the day while keeping her close in your heart.

However you choose to spend the day, allow yourself the space to grieve, reflect, and remember in your own way.

Learn more: https://www.dignitymemorial.com/grief-and-sympathy/losing-a-loved-one/5-ways-to-remember-mom-managing-grief-on-mothers-day

05/08/2026

Wakes allow family and friends to gather, share memories, and honor the deceased before burial or cremation. This tradition has roots in Europe and helps communities grieve together.

05/07/2026

The loss of a military loved one carries a unique and deeply personal grief—one often shared by an entire community. Alongside pride in their service can come waves of sorrow, confusion, and even unanswered questions. It’s important to remember that these emotions are natural, and healing takes time.

Understanding the support, benefits, and traditions available—along with giving yourself space to grieve—can help bring comfort during such a difficult journey. You are not alone, and there are resources to guide you with care and compassion.

Learn more: https://www.dignitymemorial.com/grief-and-sympathy/losing-a-loved-one/helping-yourself-when-there-has-been-a-military-death

05/06/2026

After a celebration of life, one of the most heartfelt ways to show appreciation is through a simple thank-you note. Whether someone sent flowers, made a donation, shared a meal, or simply showed up to support you, a few thoughtful words can mean so much. The good news? Your message doesn’t have to be long—just sincere.

Take your time, reflect on the kindness you received, and know that even a short note can bring comfort and connection during a difficult time.

Learn more here: https://www.dignitymemorial.com/memorial-services/planning-a-celebration-of-life/thank-you-cards

05/05/2026

05/04/2026

Honoring the life of a beloved son is never easy, but creating a meaningful celebration can beautifully reflect who he was—his passions, hobbies, and the joy he brought to others. From heartfelt tributes to personalized memorial ideas, this guide offers inspiration to help families celebrate their son’s unique story in a way that feels truly special.

In the spirit of Star Wars Day, consider weaving in a tribute from Star Wars—invite guests to dress as their favorite characters, share meaningful quotes about legacy and hope, or create a “galaxy far, far away” theme to honor his imagination and love for adventure. May the Fourth be with you as you celebrate his life and the memories that will always shine bright.

✨ Explore all 50 ideas here: https://www.dignitymemorial.com/memorial-services/planning-a-celebration-of-life/celebrating-your-son

05/03/2026

When you think about giving your family a meaningful gift, prepaid funeral planning may not be the first thing that comes to mind—but it can be one of the most thoughtful and impactful decisions you make. 💙

Pre-planning allows you to choose exactly how you want to be remembered, ensuring your wishes are honored without uncertainty. It also lifts a significant emotional and financial burden from your loved ones during an already difficult time. Instead of making stressful decisions, they can focus on remembering and celebrating your life.

Families often share that having arrangements already in place brings peace of mind, eliminates guesswork, and prevents unexpected expenses. It’s a final act of care—one that provides clarity, comfort, and support when it’s needed most.

Take a moment to explore how planning ahead can truly be a lasting gift for those you love.

Learn more here: https://www.dignitymemorial.com/pre-planning/funeral-costs/prepaid-funeral-plans-make-the-best-gift

05/01/2026

Green burials are eco-friendly options that avoid embalming fluids and non-biodegradable caskets, letting the body naturally decompose while reducing environmental impact. Many cemeteries now offer designated green burial sections.

04/30/2026

Flowers are one of the most meaningful ways to honor a loved one’s life. From elegant casket sprays to simple bouquets, each arrangement tells a story—reflecting love, remembrance, and personal tribute.

Different flowers and colors carry special meanings, offering comfort and symbolism during a service. Whether you choose lilies for peace, roses for love, or a personalized arrangement that reflects a unique life, these thoughtful details can create a beautiful and lasting impression.

Learn more about choosing the right funeral flowers and their meanings here:
https://www.dignitymemorial.com/memorial-services/planning-a-funeral/funeral-flowers

04/29/2026

You are warmly invited to join us for **Coffee & Conversation** ☕

A gentle, welcoming space for spouses navigating life after loss to connect, share, and simply be among others who understand.

There is no program and no expectations—just an opportunity for friendship, encouragement, and healing.

📅 TODAY!!! Wednesday, April 29, 2026
🕙 10:00 – 11:30 AM
📍 Dengler, Roberts, Perna Funeral Home
3070 Delaware Ave, Kenmore, NY

Light refreshments will be served.

Please feel free to share this with someone who may find comfort in attending.