01/27/2026
Distance Doesnât Diminish Decency đď¸
As a parent and a pediatric therapist here in California, Iâve been struggling to find the words for what is unfolding in Minnesota. Even from a distance, the weight of it is felt in our hearts and in the conversations we have at home.
The âhard wordsâ became unavoidable when my 6-year-old asked me why everyone was talking about Minnesota. I realized that if Iâm going to raise a kind, empathetic human, I had to find the words for him.
Through the Eyes of a Child
At his school, my son is surrounded by friends, families, and staff from every background and ethnicity imaginable. To him, they arenât âdifferent.â He doesnât understand why anyone would be treated as âless than,â because they arenât.
The kids and families I work with every day at Starfish Therapies are humans first. Regardless of where they live or where they come from, they need exactly what my son and I need:
* Love and support
* Comfort and decency
* Safety and community
Our Responsibility to Protect
In my profession, Iâve dedicated my life to supporting families and protecting those who canât protect themselves. Right now, families in Minnesotaâand across our countryâare being targeted. Their sense of safety has been uprooted.
I am teaching my son that itâs not enough to simply ânot be the problem.â We have to ask ourselves: If we saw something wrong happening, did we try to stop it? Did we speak up?
I cannot expect that of my 6-year-old if Iâm not willing to do it myself, even when the words are hard to find.
Why We Speak Up
At Starfish Therapies, our mission of healing doesnât stop at the clinic doors. We stand for the human rights of all families, whether they are in our local CA neighborhood or halfway across the country.
We see you, we value you, and we believe that every child deserves a world built on decency and safety. đ