06/15/2020
After chatting with a friend about how I stay centered while in chaos, I realized it could be a multi-meme! This is where my understanding of how to work with chaos is currently at. This is -and I am- very much a work in progress :)
[Chat excerpt]
"Oh yeah, staying centered in the chaos is likely THE theme of my life's work. It's what I'm truly studying, I think.
My strategies have evolved over the years. Right now it's about allowing the chaos to be what it is and I focus on grounding/stabilizing myself. I often visualize that I'm a willow tree in a windstorm. Or a sail boat riding storm winds.
I root to my Center. (Center=identity. Not meaning my roles/professions, but my individual core values and passions.)
Then I notice that as the wind blows chaotically around me, it's giving off energy. With awareness and intention, I can feel how to blend my efforts INTO the energy. Like a sail boat catching and using the wind, the sail boat isn't controlling the wind, but it's being propelled by it. (The sail has to be rooted to the boat for it to work though!)
So in summary, 1. deeply connect to your purpose in life, your passions and values. Let the knowledge of them support your sense of Self. 2. Feel the chaos as outside of you, not IN you. If it feels like it's in you than you need to reaffirm step 1 until it's solidified enough for step 2. You are -in fact- a radiant being of light ๐
3. Follow your heart to 'catch the wind', propel yourself towards where your needs are taking you. Then the chaos feels useful and purposeful. The chaos exists for you.
Does this make sense or is it too esoteric?"
@ Order & Chaos