09/05/2025
Do you have an unhealthy relationship with exercise?
The question is why? An article titled “9 Habits of People with a Healthy Relationship to Exercise” recently appeared in the Huffington Post. Some of their points may seem obvious—like avoiding exercises that you hate, as this virtually guarantees you won’t do them—but others may be less obvious.
If you aren’t making steady progress toward your fitness goals, then maybe it’s time to perform a bit of an inventory of your relationship with exercise.
How do you approach exercise? How do you evaluate your progress? Do you need to modify your goals and rewards? Do you even HAVE goals and rewards? How about, why do you avoid exercise?
By understanding a bit more about motivation and behavior, you may be able to make subtle changes that produce substantial and long-lasting effects.
Ok, so what do you need to do to be more successful? Let's start by asking the question would you prefer to be healthy or unhealthy? If you answered healthy, then you will need to find a way to allow yourself to do that.
Here's some ideas.
1. Don't start too hard, improvements in health come slowly but steadily, you just have to accept that today's exercise will not transform your body, but last years steady regular exercise will.
So, ease yourself into a plan that you can live with. A Revibe workout for instance usually lasts about 30 minutes, but it can start with a shorter approach.
Do you have 30 minutes to dedicate to your health? The first lesson then is that people with a healthy relationship to exercise know the difference between a good burn and true pain. But more so, healthy exercisers focus on how they feel when they are done, not how they feel about starting. That's a game changing difference right there.
You hear so much about the whole 'no pain, no gain' attitude but is it true or even necessary?
I think, in this case, we really have to redefine what pain is. Yes, you want to feel like your muscles are working, you want some fatigue, you might even relish your second-day soreness, but feeling discomfort in joints, or feeling so exhausted you just want to drop at the end of the day is not normal.
Pain can be serious, and pushing through could cause worse injury. People with a healthy relationship to exercise know when to say when.
2. Take a rest day!
No matter how much you love working out, there is such a thing as too much exercise, and the people with the healthiest relationships to exercise enjoy their off days. For strength training take a day to recover between each session. So three times a week is enough!
3. People who enjoy exercise don't exercise to eat, they eat to exercise. Big difference!
Exercising purely to "influence weight or shape" can be a slippery slope into obsession and disorder. For a healthy athlete or exerciser, food is fuel, not the enemy. Our bodies require a bare minimum amount of calories simply to survive, and we need to provide extra energy for physical activity. Rather than exercising "to allow yourself to eat, people with a healthy relationship to exercise eat to allow themselves to exercise.
Eating whatever you want just because you exercised today doesn't cut it either, even if you just want to maintain weight. Of course I would never say the occasional brownie was completely off limits, but "'occasional' doesn't mean every dinner warrants a dessert! Right?
Just remember that any sugar or processed carb eaten will replace the fat fuel you were going to burn! There is no point for your body burning fat if you continually give it empty sugar laden fuel.
4. Don't panic if you need to change your schedule. It happens.
On those days where a regular workout gets bumped from the schedule, keep things in perspective by focusing on other ways in which you are physically active. Even walking just a few more steps a day -- whether it’s by taking the stairs instead of the elevator or commuting by foot -- is still physical, and can help ease anxiety over skipping an exercise session. Of course don't get into the habit of rescheduling the workout either. Try to get your workout scheduled in your calendar and stick to it.
5. Do what you enjoy!
I know there's a "duh" moment in all lists and this is it. But, balanced or healthy exercise is exercise that you like, not exercise that you dislike.
Let's face it, If you're doing something that you hate, you're not going to keep doing it, right? That might mean running marathons for some and practicing Bikram yoga for others, but what's important is that you don't feel like you're torturing yourself -- and that you don't feel obligated to try every single fitness fad that's out there.
The same principle applies to exercise intensity. Some people love high intensity workouts and others will simply find moderate intensity movement more tolerable. We can do both at Revibe by the way.
6. Mix it up! Once a base has been established at Revibe we like to change your workout at least every 30-days. Of course, you can change it every time you workout to keep it interesting too. Let's face it, even the most hardy get bored if all they ever do is the same thing day in a day out.
7. Along with finding a fitness plan you enjoy, people with a healthy relationship to exercise also work out when and where they like. Yep, there are big benefits to a morning workout, like fewer cravings and greater energy, but it comes down to personal preference. Some people like to exercise in the morning, some people hate mornings. You don't have to force it, just do it.
Personally I like nooners!
8. Make it social.
Everyone has their off days, even people with a healthy relationship to exercise. Whether it's a lack of motivation to stick to healthy exercise or a compulsion to overdo it, one of the most effective safety nets is having a workout buddy, or in the case of Revibe 7 other buddies. It's harder to do the compulsive thing when you've got someone with you to encourage something a little more moderate, and it's a great motivator for others too. Of course, if exercise -- or lack of it -- is truly interfering with someone's health, it may be safer to consult a nutritionist, a physician or a mental health professional, or a mixture of all three. But be careful, medical doctors are not well trained in nutrition.
9. We know so much about the mental health benefits of exercise today, and yet many unbalanced exercisers only consider breaking a sweat helpful for altering weight or shape. For many, exercise is an effective coping method for stress, anxiety and depression, and healthy exercisers harness these powers for good.
So what's your excuse? Let's begin by making your health your goal. What's the first thing you will do? Here's to a better lifestyle!