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07/20/2025

Getting Well can Feel Isolating Because…

Nobody will say it out loud, but in a dysfunctional family, the one who chooses to heal becomes the threat.

Not because you're wrong, but because your truth makes them uncomfortable.

The moment you stop shrinking to keep the peace, set boundaries, or say "This isn't okay with me anymore," you'll be called dramatic, selfish, disrespectful, too sensitive, unappreciative and maybe much meaner words.

But LISTEN: You're not the problem for finally being healed enough to stand up for yourself and not tolerating the toxicity!

You're not too much for choosing healing over silence.
You're not breaking the family, (it’s been broken for a long time.) You are instead, breaking the cycle.

They'll try to shame you because your growth reveals their wounds. Keep up your healthy boundaries because you are teaching them that to be in your life, they must learn to treat you with respect.

You are awesome because you will be the reason future generations (including your own children) will grow up with feeling safe and loved, rather than terrified and unloved.

YOU are the cycle breaker.
And that is something for you to be proud of.

05/23/2025

So well stated.

11/27/2024

I love this! Lesson is valuable🤣

07/17/2024

If you need someone to listen and help you figure out why are feeling fearful, anxious, or sad, I can help!

06/23/2024

Never know what is coming next store for us from Mother Nature 😀i

07/15/2022

Hey everybody! I have had so many children communicate to me that they are so angry about their parents constant attention to their cell phones! Children need to feel like they have your undivided attention. They need to feel that they are more important than anything else in your life. Please try to put your cell phones away for at least 2 hours a day and give your children and your spouse your undivided attention!

05/23/2022

This is absolutely True! ❤️

05/19/2022

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05/09/2021

02/08/2021

Did you ever consider how ones view of themselves, and their world-view gets created? What creates the “Production of Reality?”
How does one become self-confident, generally happy, successful,positive, capable of love and caring about others and able to view life events as challenges to overcome?
Conversely, how does one become self-absorbed, generally unhappy, unable to function successfully in work or loving relationships, their world-view is negative where they do not trust others and they are the victims of life circumstances that are the fault of others?
Interesting to think about this - thoughts???

02/08/2021

Did you ever consider how ones view of themselves, and their world-view gets created? What creates the “Production of Reality?”
How does one become self-confident, generally happy, successful,positive, capable of love and caring about others and able to view life events as challenges to overcome?
Conversely, how does one become self-absorbed, generally unhappy, unable to function successfully in work or loving relationships, their world-view is negative where they do not trust others and they are the victims of life circumstances that are the fault of others?
Interesting to think about this! If you need help changing your reality, please reach out!
I have helped many to move to a more positive place!!