William & Marlene Mccabe

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William & Marlene Mccabe

We decided our 2nd anniversary to get married all over again with family and friends present this time.

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Calistoga, CA

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http://napavalleystateparks.org/campground-map/

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MY DREAM OF BILL BEFORE I EVEN MET HIM!

Before my fiance Howard had passed away, I had had this dream. Howard came out of surgery in a coma due to complications during the surgery. He passed away a week later on January 14, 2005. I dreamed about Bill in 2004, who is my husband now, before I ever met him. I was in a kitchen making something to eat, talking to a male I couldn't see cause he was in a hallway, and I just knew that Howard wasn't part of the picture. This bothered me cause I was going to be with Howard forever, he was my soul mate. When I woke up, I told Howard about the dream. He told me it was just weird cause he wasn't in it, that's all. I figured if he wasn't tripping on my dream then neither should I. So, I didn't give the dream much thought after that.

It was sometime in 2006 and I was completely lost. I was off the beaten path, I had no compos, didn't know which way to turn, if I was recovering too slow or too fast. There is a 22 year age difference between my current fiance Bill and me so I wasn't even sure if I should be with Bill or if I was just clinging to him for security. I told God that I needed some kind of sign as to what direction to go cause I hadn't a clue or at least let me know if I was going in the right direction. I was completely lost and whatever path I had been on, was not the path I was on now. This path was new to me and I had no idea what I was doing or if I was was doing the right things. I wasn't even sure if I was on the right path where I was at for that matter. I at least needed to know if I was going in the right direction.

A few day's later I was making lunch for Bill and I and we were talking as he was coming down the hallway towards the kitchen. I suddenly realized I was having that same conversation I was having from my dream. It was like Déjà vu times 10. I felt like I was being sucked backwards through a tunnel in time. I started looking around the kitchen and I was in that same kitchen, talking to a male I couldn't see because he was in a hallway, making something to eat, and then it hit me, Howard wasn't part of the picture because he had already passed away!

I hadn't met Bill yet when I had had that dream, I had never been in his house or in his kitchen either. I met Bill a few weeks after I had had that dream. In fact, if my friend hadn't stole my bike tire from me, I wouldn't have needed to find out where he lived, and I wouldn't have ever met Bill. It's funny how things play out in life sometimes. God's answer to my question was, " You are right where you are suppose to be in life. Just keep going."

Everything I went through since 2004 was for a reason. If I hadn't lost everything, if I hadn't had to navigate myself through the guardianship courts with my parents or through the Family courts with CPS, I wouldn't be able to understand exactly what other parents were going through or feeling and I wouldn't be able to help them navigate through those systems as effectively as I do.

Timing is everything and when the time is right, your purpose will be revealed to you. Some of us have a hard time being patient and want the answers right away. However, knowing too soon can damage the final outcome of the bigger picture. You may be wondering, how?

In the movie, V For Vendetta, the guy that wears the mask teaches the girl he rescues, how to live without fear. If he revealed to her how he was going to teach her that lesson, the lesson wouldn't have fully made an impression on her and would have dulled the impact it made in her life to have learned that lesson. He could only teach her this lesson and have her fully understand it by not revealing the details till after she learned the lesson.

There is a purpose and a plan for each one of us in this universe. When the time is right, it will be revealed to us. I was 36 years old before my purpose was revealed to me. In the meantime, try and stay focused on what lessons we are suppose to learn in each situation as they present themselves. It helps keep time from standing still while we are going through it and keeps our minds occupied so we don't dwell on the fact of how much things in our life suck at the moment. Once we figure out what the lesson is, the rest is a breeze.

Don't try and rush perfection. Sit back, breathe in deeply, and then as you breath out, release the negative thoughts with that breath.

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