
08/14/2025
Some of the very best advice I’ve gotten falls in mind with this. Several years ago when I started my business a veterinarian that I consider a friend and mentor said to me, “Educate yourself. Be someone who people enjoy doing business with. They are buying you, not the modality”. While going through the certification process for my most recent modality, the instructor stated “ people make the choices that best suit them”. I find myself frequently thinking of these two pieces of advice. As a therapist we’re all a special blend of whatever our experiences have been and each of us brings something different to the table.💕
It's never about a modality its how the individual applies it!!
Sniping comments, misunderstandings about how a modality changes from showing an owner to the path a qualified practitioner takes, bringing others down in order to build your modality up is not how things should be done.
Two people could qualify in one modality yet be so different in their approach you would not recognise they both have a similar training background, one may qualify yet never go out and work so only bring the tools of the modality of the time they qualified, another may encounter many horses every day changing their techniques adapting to each horse and eventually the two people can look very different.
Bringing a whole modality down because it didn't resonate with your experience is limiting the potential to explore, grow, and move beyond your one experience of an individuals application of the things they learned
What did they bring when beginning the modality ?? Did they have to unlearn previous applications so maybe found it harder than someone who came in with no prior experience, how is their application does one struggle to feel while another flows through the body like water.
It's not about modalities its always about the individual application behind it that makes every therapist unique and individual, its not just about techniques its how we live and breathe our life with horses, its bringing a little bit of who we are into our work, that is what makes us not a modality but a therapist.
I was always told never leave a door slammed shut on your way out, leave the door ajar because you never know when you may need to knock on it and ask to be let back in.
I remember one client who said we book you because we like you, we like the way you work, we like how you respect our horses, that is not taught in a classroom its who we are.
So if you like me are looking around thinking where are we at, why in a world of preaching kindness we see so much animosity. If you feel that how can we move forward I simply say if you cannot treat humans with kindness and kindness does not mean not holding people accountable for their actions or words, then how would you treat my horse if it disagreed with your opinion when working on it.
Choose a therapist because they are good at what they do regardless of the modality they chose to train with.
The horse always tells you the truth listen to them.