05/30/2026
Hand in Hand
Walking the halls of ASCO this year will feel different.
There is the excitement of new discoveries, promising research, innovative treatments, and the relentless pursuit of better outcomes for patients. Science continues to move forward, and for that I am deeply grateful.
But alongside that gratitude walks grief.
This conference was supposed to include celebrating Billy's birthday, just as we have done with Billy and Evie for years. Instead, we carry his memory with us. Suzanne was supposed to be here sharing her story but she is home caring for Mac and we are praying hard for his recovery. We feel the empty chairs, the conversations left unfinished, and the ache that comes when someone you love is no longer beside you.
Yet life continues to unfold and I'm not sure how.
Patients are receiving good scan results. Others are facing difficult decisions. New friendships are forming. New hopes are emerging. Families are gathering. Children are growing. Research is advancing.
And somehow, grace makes room for all of it.
The joy and the sorrow. The gratitude and the grief. The hope and the heartbreak.
As I think of these halls, I am reminded that every statistic represents a person. Every study represents a family. Every breakthrough represents another chance, another birthday, another memory waiting to be made.
Today I am grateful for science. I am grateful for the brilliant minds who refuse to stop searching for answers. I am grateful for every patient who participates in research so others may benefit. And I am grateful for the grace that carries us through the moments when our hearts are both full and broken.
Life rarely asks us to choose between gratitude and grief.
More often, it asks us to walk forward holding both.
Hand in hand.