05/01/2026
Quick Shot: Victims By Choice
When someone chooses to depend on their security from outside sources (ie: police, security guards, other people in a crowd, neighbors, etc.) they are what people in self-defense circles describe as potential “victims by choice”. If one makes the decision to delegate their safety onto a third party and not take an active role in the security of their family and/or themselves, then they have set themselves up to be victims without any recourse except submission or worse. A recent article described a fi****ms instructor flying home to Seattle, Washington and was sitting beside a college professor also returning to Seattle. During the course of general conversation professions came up and the professor declared that he wished all guns would be banned and that he would never have one in his house with his wife and three daughters. The fi****ms instructor said, “fair enough”, but then asked this question: “Since you know what it is like when rioters take over your city (referring to the riots of 2020), what would you do if you experienced a home invasion with your family in the house? The professor replied that he would call the police. “OK” said the instructor. “Response times from the police average from 12-17 minutes in most cities, so let’s choose 12 minutes and start the timer”. Then the instructor started describing all the things the invaders would begin doing to his wife and daughters as three minutes crept by…..5 minutes…….7 minutes.....9 minutes and finally 12 minutes had pasted like turtles racing. Then the instructor asked if the professor really wanted to delegate his and his family’s security to a third party? How would he explain that he could do nothing to help or protect them and that their only recourse was to wait until the police arrived before they could be saved? They both sat in silence for a long time and just before the plane landed the professor asked for the instructor’s business card to get more information about what he could do to protect his family. Changing hearts and minds one at a time.
Be Safe, Be Smart, Be Prepared.