Marriage Counseling & Couples Therapy

08/31/2025

What is a man?
QUIZ:
Finish each sentence with the same 3 words:
1. A man’s honor_
2. The basis of trust _
3. The measure of integrity_
4. A man’s legacy _
5. The essence of a man _
6. A man’s reputation_
7. A man’s best asset _
8. A man’s strength _
9. A man’s dignity _
10. The reflection of a man _

08/26/2025

If you want to change the world, love a man.

I mean really love him. Choose the one whose soul calls to yours with clarity, the one who trembles before the immensity of love yet still chooses it, the one who is brave enough to be afraid. Take his hand and draw him into the river of your heart. Let him rest in its current, let him lay down the weight of centuries in your warmth. Let his heavy burden catch fire in your flame and burn into ash, so that from that ash he may rise again.

When you look into his eyes, look past the surface of today. See the boy who longed for safety, the man who fought to become himself, the father, the grandfather, and the ancient bloodline behind him. See the forgotten wars, the silent grief, the unspoken madness still echoing through his body. Know that he carries it all, often without knowing its name.

Look upon his pain, his shame, his unhealed torment without judgment. Offer him your steadiness, your sanctuary, so that he may finally surrender it. Feel the pulse of his ancestral burden, and understand that what he seeks is not perfection but a refuge deep enough to dissolve his rage into tenderness.

Let your gaze tell him he is not alone. Let your womb, the sacred gateway of renewal, wash through his scars and awaken the memory that love is older than war, and softer than fear. Love him like that, and you will not only heal him, you will heal generations.

Reposted from Kelly Graver

❤️🫶🏽❤️

07/29/2025

07/15/2025

Your marriage deserves top priority because if it fell apart, you would be devastated. Likely more devastated than a job change.

Conscientious communication to creatively collaborate during the week sets the stage for deeper intimacy during your days off.

https://www.cnbc.com/2025/07/13/psychologist-people-in-the-happiest-relationships-do-5-things-during-weekdays.html

What do the happiest couples know that most don't? Just look at how they spend their weekdays. Mark Travers, a psychologist who studies couples, shares what people in successful relationships do during the busy workweek.

06/16/2025

If you're in a relationship, and they're not your best friend, then you haven't found real love yet. If you really want trust, safety, connection and someone that wants to share every experience with you, then what you're really looking for is the kind of love that only happens when you've found your best friend in life.

Love is more than just passion, it's also purpose— love gives meaning to our life. Love gives us a reason to do good, be a better person and give in a way that truly matters.

Love is more than a rush of feelings or being adored, it's taking everything that's good and pure in us and sharing it with open arms and an open heart. Love with your best friend never grows old, it only grows deeper.
-Joel Clemons • Love, Life & Relationship Coach .gentleman.wolf
•
Incredible photo by:

03/24/2025

02/14/2025

Believe it or not, Spiritual fellowship and committed relationships are the two biggest factors.

https://ifstudies.org/blog/why-so-blue-liberal-women-are-less-happy-more-lonely-but-why

Less marriage and religion help explain liberal women’s unhappiness.