Marriage Counseling & Couples Therapy

02/15/2026

Happy Valentine's Day! Allyson and I have been together since the Summer of 1975. Choosing the path of a committed love relationship, somewhere along the line one’s greatest psychological challenges will come forward. We express and project our shadow onto one another. When these personal challenges are complementary, they can heal in the context of love & support. Emotional pathologies that are dissonant, not complementary, can accelerate dysfunction and negatively impact the relationship. Along with this, mutual respect and gratitude are key. The expression, “my better half” describes knowing that, with our flaws and their strengths, the other partner is really "...too good for me. How fortunate I am to have been gifted this partner. With my partner, I become a better person.” Infinite love to Allyson.

Whether you are with or without a partner today, may you celebrate the power of love. May you melt into the cosmic flow. The sacred and transformative path of love is unique for every person. Some relationships are meteoric, burn brightly, last briefly whereas some couples burn with passion for a lifetime. Is it possible that your relationship is perfect as it is and that your partner is perfect as they are, perfect for you for this moment? Pondering that one helped me be less reactive and defensive in my conversations. What is the gift that is being offered in difficult moments, the teaching we are meant to learn about ourselves and our relationship with the beloved and with the one infinite consciousness seeing through all selves?

02/13/2026

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01/06/2026

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12/25/2025

12/23/2025

Relationships don’t last because of the good times.
Anyone can laugh together, travel together, celebrate wins, and smile when everything is easy. The real foundation of a relationship is built in the moments when life isn’t kind, when stress is high, emotions are raw, and patience feels thin.

It’s in the hard times where love shows its true depth. When misunderstandings happen, when arguments arise, when one person is tired, hurting, or falling apart, that’s when love becomes a choice, not just a feeling. Choosing to listen instead of shouting. Choosing to understand instead of assuming. Choosing kindness when walking away would be easier.

Strong relationships are created by two people who decide to protect each other even in the storm. They communicate instead of shutting down. They apologize without keeping score. They offer reassurance when fear creeps in and hold space when words fail. They remember that it’s not me vs you, but us vs the problem.

Anyone can stay when things are perfect. It takes real commitment to stay when things are messy. Love that lasts isn’t loud or dramatic, it’s patient, forgiving, and gentle during the toughest moments. It’s built through effort, empathy, and the willingness to grow together.

In the end, relationships that stand the test of time aren’t defined by how much fun was shared, but by how much care was shown when things were falling apart. That’s where real love lives. ✅

12/22/2025

12/07/2025

Marriage advice from Carl Jung ~

“The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.” — Carl Jung🌑 There is a sacred rebellion in every awakened woman — a truth too deep, too ancie...

11/27/2025

CHIVALRY for HUSBANDS~
Tonight, before the holiday rush begins, ask yourself one question:
Does the woman you love feel fully cherished by you?

A woman doesn’t remember the big gestures.
She remembers how consistently you show up for her — with presence, patience, and devotion.
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11/13/2025

How difficult families spur our growth ~

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08/31/2025

What is a man?
QUIZ:
Finish each sentence with the same 3 words:
1. A man’s honor_
2. The basis of trust _
3. The measure of integrity_
4. A man’s legacy _
5. The essence of a man _
6. A man’s reputation_
7. A man’s best asset _
8. A man’s strength _
9. A man’s dignity _
10. The reflection of a man _

08/26/2025

If you want to change the world, love a man.

I mean really love him. Choose the one whose soul calls to yours with clarity, the one who trembles before the immensity of love yet still chooses it, the one who is brave enough to be afraid. Take his hand and draw him into the river of your heart. Let him rest in its current, let him lay down the weight of centuries in your warmth. Let his heavy burden catch fire in your flame and burn into ash, so that from that ash he may rise again.

When you look into his eyes, look past the surface of today. See the boy who longed for safety, the man who fought to become himself, the father, the grandfather, and the ancient bloodline behind him. See the forgotten wars, the silent grief, the unspoken madness still echoing through his body. Know that he carries it all, often without knowing its name.

Look upon his pain, his shame, his unhealed torment without judgment. Offer him your steadiness, your sanctuary, so that he may finally surrender it. Feel the pulse of his ancestral burden, and understand that what he seeks is not perfection but a refuge deep enough to dissolve his rage into tenderness.

Let your gaze tell him he is not alone. Let your womb, the sacred gateway of renewal, wash through his scars and awaken the memory that love is older than war, and softer than fear. Love him like that, and you will not only heal him, you will heal generations.

Reposted from Kelly Graver

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