
08/25/2025
You did it, Mama.
The time has come. The boxes are packed, the bed is unmade, and soon, their room will be empty. Your baby is heading off to college, and youâre feeling all the feels. It's okay to feel a little sad, but let's reframe this moment.
Instead of seeing this as the end of an era, see it as the incredible beginning of the next oneâfor both of you! All those late nights, tough talks, and proud moments have led to this.
They are ready to spread their wings because you gave them roots strong enough to carry them.
So, while they are learning to navigate new classes and social situations, whatâs next for you?
This isnât a time to be a drama queen about the change; itâs a time to be the main character in your own story. Your kid needs to see you thriving, too!
This is your chance to learn that new hobby you've been putting off, take a class at the local rec center, or finally join that book club.
Remember how proud you were when they took their first steps? Get ready to feel that way about yourself. This isn't about filling a void; itâs about growing into the next version of you.
Youâve given them all the tools they need to succeed. Now it's your turn to show them what it means to keep learning and evolving.
Let them be proud of you. Let them tell their new friends, "My mom is learning to rock climb!" or "My mom is finally writing that novel."
You gave them roots and now it's time for them to use their wings.
And for you, itâs time to fly, too.
So, what's one thing you're going to do for yourself this semester?
Thatâs my challenge to You ..đ