Buckle up and hold on tight! Weâre on a mission over here at Indiana Birth & Parenting and operation Celebrating #SuperMoms is in full force! Now, before you start the eyerolling at the mention of the word SuperMom, you need to hear us out. Weâre really onto something here.
It all started when a friend of ours said, âI donât have a space online or in my community where I can go and celebrate being a good mom without feeling judged.â Whoa. Full stop. What???
Her admission stuck with us. When did being good at something become a bad thing? Did you notice we said good and not perfect? Not long after this revelation, we saw a need for this change in our community...and that led to a deep dive online. The phrase SuperMom kept popping up, and every time it did, it was used in a negative tone. Ouch.
For us, being SuperMoms, knowing SuperMoms, and supporting SuperMoms has NOTHING to do with actions and outcomes. Itâs not about a pristine outward appearance with flawlessly curated snapshots of what parenting should look like. Itâs not about being all the things for our families, or doing all the things for everyone effortlessly.
Every single mom is a SuperMom in our eyes. Hear us when we say Every. Single. Mom. Itâs our mission to take this taboo word and turn it into an unwavering term of empowerment.
Whatâs it mean to be a SuperMom?
Itâs knowing our worth, and our limits, as people and as parents.
Itâs trying our best and forgiving ourselves when our best isnât enough.
Itâs not judging other moms who might be doing things differently than us.
Itâs balance.
Itâs letting go of unrealistic expectations and deciding to do whatâs best for us and our families.
Itâs lifting up other moms when they are broken.
Itâs forgiving ourselves when we are the broken ones.
Itâs unapologetically taking care of our mental, physical and emotional health.
Itâs recognizing that if weâre worried, concerned, and striving to be the best versions of ourselves, it means we careâŠand weâre trying. It doesnât mean weâre always succeeding.
Itâs celebrating the big and small things.
Itâs sleepless nights, newborn spit up, dirty diapers, sticky toddler fingers, sweet baby smells and first smiles.
Itâs dry shampoo.
Itâs the hard work we put into our relationship with our partner.
Itâs being vulnerable.
Itâs patience, creativity & multitasking.
Itâs being a teacher, an advocate, and a friend.
Itâs loving unconditionally, bravely and with strength.
Itâs believing you are enough.
Itâs about moms. All moms.
And thatâs amazingly SUPER.
We live in a world where children are being exposed to the âeveryone wins a trophyâ mentality. How did society go from putting kids on pedestals for their pint-sized achievements, to shaming their mothers for patting themselves on the back for their mom-sized accomplishments? Letâs face it- keeping a tiny human fed is hard work and this absolutely falls under the SuperMom category!
Being a SuperMom doesnât mean you have all the answers or youâre raising perfect children. To us, being a SuperMom means youâre trying your best as often as possible. And when youâre feeling not-so-super, you recognize what support you need in order to get back up, dust yourself off, and try again.
Letâs not forget the parents who have two parental roles, the partners supporting their favorite person, and the grandparents, aunts & uncles, and guardians who are stepping up and leaning in. We see you too.
Itâs time to embrace parenthood. Own your superpowers, call on your sidekicks when needed, and when the world is telling you to lose your cape, choose to embrace it instead.
You, yes YOU! Youâre a #SuperMom!
Embrace the Cape,
Jordan + Amy