12/17/2025
Oncology Massage: Healing Beyond Skin Deep 💛💆♀️
Working as an oncology-trained massage therapist teaches you a lot about human resilience — and human vulnerability. I’ve seen clients walk in angry, sad, exhausted, or scared, and leave with a small smile because they finally had a chance to release tension and just rest.
Some of the hardest moments are not just physical — they are emotional. I’ve witnessed women go through divorces or relationship breakdowns during chemotherapy or cancer treatment because their partners couldn’t handle the reality of serious illness. Sadly, research confirms this is more common than we think: a study found a gender disparity in partner abandonment among patients with serious medical illness, with women more likely to be left by their male partners during illness (Glantz et al., 2009, PubMed
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Being a massage therapist in oncology means being prepared for every emotional state — tears, anger, grief — and still providing a safe, supportive space. It’s challenging, but it’s also deeply meaningful work. 💆♀️💛