04/20/2026
β Can I ask you something honestly?
Are you the one who always holds everything together? The person who says "it's fine, I'll handle it" β even when you're exhausted, overwhelmed, and running on empty?
If you're nodding right nowβ¦ you might be over-responsible. π
Over-responsibility isn't a badge of honor. It's a pattern that quietly drains your energy, erases your needs, and teaches everyone around you that you don't need support β because you never ask for it.
You deserve to be held too. You deserve to put yourself down β even just for a moment.
I wrote all about this pattern β where it comes from, why it's so hard to break, and how to start unravelling it β over on the blog. π
https://totalanxietyrelief.com/blog/f/the-fixers-trap