04/23/2023
Pregnancy and parenthood are the perfect time to R E L E A S E judgement and be G E N T L E on yourself if you have not yet arrived in your journey of self-acceptance.
Pre-pregnancy, I had a hard time accepting the need to wear compression stockings. My own judgements about "what it meant to have to wear compression stockings" got in the way. I was young and these stockings are less than attractive, in my opinion.
However, I had medical need as veins webbed on my lower legs, I experienced swelling, and discomfort.
It was time. R E L E A S E + A C C E P T A N C E.
I am now nearing the end of my second trimester in my third pregnancy, and tonight, I texted my midwife this photo saying, "Bought some sexy lingerie that I am going to need your signature for to try to get reimbursement." Do I really think compression stockings are sexy? N O ! Have I released my pre-conceived notions and self-judgement about the N E E D to wear them? A B S O L U T E L Y. As I sit here in my nightgown, making the same lingerie joke to my husband, and guess what ! He did not even bat an eyelash, just winked and smiled.
So, wear the compression stockings, wear the belly belt; skip out on shaving when you cannot see your toes (or even before then if you're not feeling it).
R E L E A S E. Be G E N T L E. And A C C E P T yourself