01/19/2025
Have you ever caught yourself saying, *"I’ll be happy when…"* or *"I’ll wear the bathing suit when…"* or *"I’ll feel confident enough to date when…"*? These thoughts may seem harmless, but they send a powerful signal to your body—a signal that says safety and happiness are somewhere *out there,* just beyond your reach.
Here’s the truth: if your sense of safety or peace is tied to something constantly changing, like how your body looks, you’ll never feel truly safe or grounded.
And even if you wind up in your "perfect body" you will feel peaceful or safe for a short time but you will also feel trapped because now your peacefulness or safety is conditional - it is dependent on your "perfect" body - and that is a TRAP. Do you know how hard it is to keep your body at that level?
When you focus your sense of safety or peace on something deeper—like your inherent worth, your resilience, or your commitment to self-love—you free yourself. Then, no matter how your body shifts or evolves, no matter what new physical challenges you take on or how much weight you lift, you’ll still feel safe, strong, and whole.
So, let’s start today. Let’s redefine what feeling peaceful or safe in your body feels like—not as something conditional, but as something that’s always with you, ready to support your journey every step of the way. You deserve to feel secure, confident, and empowered in the here and now—because you are enough, just as you are. 🌟